A couple in Shangqiu, Henan Province were married by relatives and friends, and they were on the hot search. Relatives and friends hugged the bride, and the groping pig hands were placed on the bride's chest. The bride helplessly shouted "Don't**, it's really gone!" ”
Here's what happened: The couple was driving home, and on the way they were stopped by a bunch of relatives and friends to ask for red envelopes. But even if they were given red envelopes, these people still didn't let them go. They first brought the groom under control, and the groom was completely incapacitated. So, they began to hug the bride, pretending to search for red envelopes to grope around on the bride, and even directly put their hands up and down on the bride's upright chest, taking the opportunity to rub oil.
The bride was so frightened that she lost her face and was not angry, so she had to beg: "Don't**, there is really no more, there is really no red envelope." ”
The groom was very embarrassed on the side, because marriage trouble is a local custom, and the people who come to make trouble are all friends, and he is not angry, and he has to accompany the smiling face against his will.
In normal times, this is a typical sexual harassment, or even a crime. When a husband sees his wife being so offended by another man, no matter how good the relationship is, the brother will be furious and fight. Brother definitely didn't have to do it.
However, under the high-sounding guise of "traditional customs", these vulgar and barbaric marriage troubles not only make the bride and groom angry; Even the law is helpless against it. At present, there is no law or regulation to regulate the conduct of marital troubles.
Marriage troubles are more common and prevalent in China, and it first appeared in ancient times. In order to celebrate the wedding, the ancients would hold some pleasant games, and everyone would be happy, so as to set off the festive atmosphere. However, society is progressing in civilization, while marriage troubles are becoming more and more vulgar.
In recent years, there have been numerous examples of barbaric marriages in various places.
On February 9, on the wedding day of a couple in Feng County, Xuzhou City, Jiangsu Province, the bride was kissed and touched by a man.
In the picture, the man in white first walked up to the bride, holding the bride's face and kissing her, and there were people next to him coaxing, shouting "one mouthful, two mouthfuls, three mouthfuls", although the bride was a little confused, but she could still see that she was trying her best to dodge.
Later, another man also stepped forward to kiss the bride and slapped the bride's buttocks. Said yes: "Touch the bride's belly and don't get sick for three years." ”
On January 9, a couple got married somewhere in Shandong, and many men took advantage of the local "marriage trouble" custom to vent their "bad taste". **, I saw the bride and groom being pressed to the bottom like arhats by everyone and kept shaking. Later, the bride was forcibly held by a man and sprayed with white foam by another man. During this time, the bride struggled all the time, but was pulled to the ground.
On May 16, 2022, a vicious marriage trouble occurred in Xingtan, Shunde, Foshan, Guangdong. **, several bridesmaids were pressed on the bed by multiple men, one of the men also took off his pants, and one bridesmaid was **. The ** is more than forty minutes long.
Jiangsu Yancheng has formed the inherent impression of "Yancheng has no bottom line for marriage" in people's minds. Some time ago, there was also an incident of forcibly kissing the bride at the wedding of the father-in-law in Yancheng. At the beginning, when people thought that the father-in-law was holding the bride's hand and preparing to hand over the bride to the groom, no one expected that the father-in-law would suddenly turn around and kiss his daughter-in-law. The surrounding spectators were not very shocked, but whistled and applauded. Even the master of ceremonies on the stage didn't know whether he was used to seeing strong winds and waves or had no choice but to round the field, and even praised the bride's behavior of not resisting as generous, knowing that she would follow the local customs.
Marriage troubles are traditional Chinese marriage customs, such as the haunting hole house that people often talk about is one of the forms of marriage trouble. However, since the beginning of the 21st century, there have been many bizarre forms of marriage troubles in our country, and some of them are even vulgar, corrupt customs, and affect the social atmosphere. All kinds of marriage troubles continue to appear in the news, in various forms, in addition to the bride, but also the bridesmaids, grooms, and even parents-in-law in some places, and some even make lawsuits and deaths.
Previously, there were many extreme cases of bridesmaids being married by many men** at the wedding, and the wedding "caused the groom to be disabled at the tenth level. On February 6, 2013, in Qingxu County, Taiyuan, Shanxi, Li Xiangrui, a child from a single-parent family, was punched and kicked by relatives and friends at the wedding and finally died.
Vulgar marriage has attracted social attention, but it is still prevalent in various places. Some folklore experts have appealed that marriage troubles that have changed their flavor should not be allowed, and marriage troubles should abide by social morality. However, such an appeal is naturally both powerless and ineffective, and it needs to be explicitly prohibited through legislation and banned in accordance with the law before it can be effective.
China is rooted in a feudal society for thousands of years, and many so-called traditional customs have been passed down for thousands of years and have been deeply ingrained in the minds of most people. Many people do not discriminate, thinking that as long as it is a custom passed down from their ancestors, it is good and should be passed on. For example, setting off firecrackers, burning paper money, worshipping Bodhisattvas, worshiping ghosts and gods, women binding their feet, and so on.
As everyone knows, some customs in the past were due to backward science and lack of knowledge at that time, and people could only advocate feudal superstition. With the progress of science, the development of society, and the improvement of civilization, we should realize that many customs in the past were ignorant and backward, incompatible with civilization, and even ran counter to civilization. The negative impact it has on society is significant and should be gradually abandoned.
Uncivilized marriage troubles not only violate the dignity of the bride and groom and are suspected of sexual harassment, but also hurt social morals and affect social stability. Instead of creating a festive atmosphere, it can lead to tragedy.
It's time to clean up the marriage troubles! In this regard, Shen County, Shandong Province took the lead in promulgating relevant regulations, which clearly stipulate that vulgar marriage troubles cannot be carried out, such as tape tying trees, groom tying telephone poles, forcibly kissing the bride, bride bridesmaids, pouring beer, smashing eggs, etc. Violators will be dealt with severely.
Shen County is intervening in the marriage and customs from the administrative level, but in order to completely curb this kind of vulgarity, it is necessary to carry out legislation and completely solve it from the legal level. Traditional customs are by no means "shields", and there is no such thing as "the law does not hold the people accountable". It is urgent to hold a wedding in a civilized manner in accordance with the law!