Sister Xiao is 55 years old this year and works in a public institution. At the beginning of the year, she went through the retirement procedures in the unit, and the pension was 6,300 yuan per month. Sister Xiao is quite satisfied.
However, Sister Xiao also has one thing that has bothered her for a long time, that is, she has a poor relationship with her husband. How bad is it? The two have been separated for three years. In the past three years, the two have not spoken, contacted, or interacted.
Why not get divorced? Because of the children, of course. The child did not agree to the divorce of the two, and he would rather have his parents separate than have another stepfather and stepmother.
Now that the child is married, Sister Xiao has no worries, and she decided to go through the divorce procedures after completing the retirement procedures.
My husband readily agreed to the divorce. Two houses for one person. The car was in the name of Sister Xiao, so it was given to Sister Xiao, the car bought for 200,000 yuan, driven for ten years, and now it is worth 10,000 yuan. 800,000 deposits, half for each person.
Walking out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, Sister Xiao watched her ex-husband disappear into the crowd, and felt a little melancholy and lonely in her heart.
She and her ex-husband are in free love. Her ex-husband is a local, and she was assigned to work in Beijing after graduating from a junior college. The in-laws look down on outsiders, especially the mother-in-law, who is a political teacher in a key middle school, and looks down on Sister Xiao, a small laboratory technician in the hospital. One year on Chinese New Year's Eve, when the whole family was eating together, my mother-in-law said with disdain: The work of a laboratory technician is really dirty, and I am exposed to phlegm and urine all day long. When Sister Xiao heard this, she felt very uncomfortable.
Sister Xiao's parents came to Beijing to live in her house. Her husband is also increasingly reluctant to see her parents-in-law. When Xiao's parents lived in Beijing for the fourth month, her husband asked Xiao's parents to persuade her to leave. Bang your parents away, Sister Xiao can't open her mouth! Her husband simply didn't come home.
Later, they had a son. The mother-in-law said: I am not in good health and can't take my grandson, so I asked my in-laws to help take care of the children. Sister Xiao's parents tiptoed over from out of town again. Who would have expected that Sister Xiao's husband had a lot of troubles, he thought that the bottle was not cleaned for a while, and for a while he thought that his mother-in-law hugged the child without washing his hands, and always complained that his father-in-law's smoking affected the child. When his son was eight months old, he contracted rotavirus and had diarrhea, which he insisted was caused by his mother-in-law's unhygiene. Sister Xiao's parents returned to their hometown in anger.
Sister Xiao has a bad relationship with her in-laws, and her husband has a bad relationship with Sister Xiao's mother's family, it's really difficult to live like this!
Against all odds, my son finally went to elementary school. Sister Xiao and her husband had serious disagreements over educating their children. Sister Xiao believes that children should be strict and pay close attention to her son's learning. The son is naughty and disobedient, and he is not focused on learning, and Sister Xiao sometimes yells at the child when she is angry. When her husband heard this, he immediately jumped up from the bed and loudly accused Sister Xiao. As soon as the son saw that his father was supporting him, he didn't listen to Sister Xiao's words.
Sister Xiao can't control her son anymore. My son's studies got worse and worse, and in the end he only got into two books. Other people's children, at the request of their parents, study hard since they were young, grow up to be admitted to a good university, and find a good job after graduation. But Sister Xiao's husband doesn't care about the child's study, and he doesn't let Sister Xiao take care of it. Sister Xiao hated it, she hated her husband for delaying her son's life.
When she was young, Sister Xiao noticed that her husband liked to have an affair with a female colleague, and Sister Xiao turned a blind eye and passed.
The last straw that broke the camel's back was: A few years ago, Sister Xiao was hospitalized, and she asked her husband to help her go home and get something, but she didn't make it clear, and her husband took it wrong. Her husband yelled at her in front of all the patients in the ward, and Sister Xiao felt extremely embarrassed and uncomfortable. Husband and wife for more than 20 years, who can't get a soft word, have been beaten. When she was discharged from the hospital, she asked the patient's family members in the same ward to help her get her things and send them downstairs, and she didn't dare to alarm her husband.
Hey, it's not interesting for husband and wife to get to this point.
Separation is inevitable.
Divorce is inevitable.
It's a pity that for nearly 30 years, the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the indifference and pickiness of her husband, her own sadness and tears, she has been blind for 30 years, it's not worth it!
Sister Xiao watched her ex-husband's background disappear into the crowd.
With double certificates (retirement certificate and divorce certificate) in hand, Sister Xiao will not have a good time in the future!
I go to the park every morning for morning exercises, drink afternoon tea with old friends and colleagues in the afternoon, and sometimes go to my son's house in the evening to help clean up and make dinner.
Keeping a distance of "a bowl of soup" from her son and daughter-in-law is the rule that Sister Xiao has set for herself. The daughter-in-law is also from other places, and Sister Xiao does not look down on her daughter-in-law like her mother-in-law. There is only this one daughter-in-law, and Sister Xiao wants to have a good relationship with her. The daughter-in-law has not yet given birth to a child, and Sister Xiao said that if her daughter-in-law is pregnant, she will accompany her to the hospital for prenatal checkups, and she will go to the confinement center in the future, and the expenses will be paid by her and her ex-husband. In the future, she will also help watch the children and let her daughter-in-law go out to work. Sister Xiao is a reasonable and good mother-in-law, and her daughter-in-law is naturally close to her.
Sister Xiao is also planning to travel abroad, she wants to go to Alaska to watch the cod jump out of the water; I want to go to the South Pacific and watch seagulls skim across the ocean; I want to go to Lake Baikal and see the blue ice wonders ......While she was not too old and her legs and feet were still dexterous, she wanted to go around the world, otherwise, she felt that her life had been in vain.
It's a beautiful idea, but it all costs money.
Sister Xiao's pension of 6,300 yuan per month is enough for her daily expenses, and she can save 3,000 yuan every month. However, her son's monthly mortgage also weighed on her heart like a big stone. She also wants to help her son pay off the mortgage as soon as possible, and she also wants to save more pension money for herself.
After Sister Xiao was ready to rest for a while, she went to find a job. Find one that is not too tiring and has less money. Her old friend introduced her to a furniture store to sell furniture, with a monthly salary of 2,000 yuan and a commission. She thinks it's good.
The 55-year-old sister Xiao still has charm, ** white and clean, and Lili Suo. Enthusiastic people introduced his wife to Sister Xiao, but Sister Xiao refused them one by one. She didn't want to remarry. I have not enjoyed the blessings of marriage, but I have suffered from marriage. She didn't want to repeat the same mistakes. The first marriage is not good, and the second marriage is even more difficult. Sister Xiao was deeply hurt by her marriage. It's better to live by yourself, eat what you want, buy what you want, and come how happy you are.
Now, Sister Xiao's life is easy and happy, and she always has a happy smile on her face. A person's retirement life is crooked!