Zhihu has the following Q&A: "Do you still love your partner after the breakup?" What would you do if you couldn't let go? ”
Faced with this question, many netizens gave an answer.
Some netizens said: "If you can't let go, pursue it, one day you will give up completely." ”
Some netizens said: "Even if we are separated, even if we can't let go, we will continue to guard." "Hidden deep within us. ”
Another netizen said, "If you can't let it go, don't pursue it, it's embarrassing and embarrassing." ”
The answer varies from person to person, but the truth is when you can't put it down. Please stop, I'll be uncomfortable if you don't contact me.
I always want to know what the other person is doing. We always want to know if the other person is happy, if they have a new love, if they are better than us.
This is a normal psychology that everyone has. The more we think about it, the more we get caught up in these emotions.
Zhang Ailing once said: "There are only two best ways to forget a person and let go of a person. The first is time, and the second is new love. ”
Yes! I have to say, this is indeed true.
In fact, both of these methods can help us divert our attention away from those who don't love us.
We slowly let it go and forgot about it.
My friend Nie Feng is very fond of someone, and they have been together on and off for more than seven years.
After that, they parted ways forever. After the breakup, Vonny can't forget the other party, and the other party can't forget Vonny.
The two began to correspond for a while, but never got together.
Since then, the contact has gradually decreased. I was lonely, but she never contacted me. Sometimes, Feng Ni just looks at each other's circle of friends to see how the other party is doing.
At first, everything the other party did affected Vonnie's mind, but as time went on, Vonny stopped caring.
Almost three years passed, and Feng Ni became indifferent to what the other party said, and began to pay no attention to the other party's news.
It really takes a long time to forget a person.
Take the time to erase the love you once had, and take the time to erase the love you have for the other person.
Over time, I got used to not having the other person, getting used to being alone, getting used to not contacting each other, and getting used to not relying on each other.
Finally one day, I'll let go completely.
After finding a new love, we may pay more attention to the news of our exes, but not so much.
Because at this time someone needs to be careful, someone needs to worry.
At this moment, our hearts are already pinned on a new love.
Netizen Nan Juan shared the process of forgetting her ex-lover.
Nan Fan said that after her ex-girlfriend proposed to break up, she didn't actually want to break up. It was difficult at first, but the opponent was very resolute.
After that, I gradually stopped dating him, but I still couldn't forget him, and then someone who really liked me started chasing me.
Although I was not very enthusiastic, I did not refuse him and slowly began to associate with him.
Understand each other and experience what it feels like to be together.
Since then, I have gradually lost my feelings for my ex, and for a long time, I can't even remember his existence.
Some people say that new love is the best medicine for love trauma.
That's right! If you can't let go and forget, try a new love, but if you can't say it, suddenly let go and forget.
Love is mutual. When someone no longer loves us, we need to find a way to free ourselves instead of trying to support them.
Eventually, you will forget about the other person, but this method does not involve deleting the other party's *** or blocking the other party's ***, but choosing between the above two, which is very useful.