Xinjiang News, February 4 (Zhang Ting) "The judge has always been able to consider the problem from our point of view, not only solved our property disputes, but also found a way to repair our relationship, and the child's condition has improved, I am really moved, thank you very much to the judge." On January 30, the party Li Mei (pseudonym) said.
Wang Jun (pseudonym) and Li Mei registered their marriage in 2004 and had a queen duo (pseudonym) after marriage. In 2019, due to the breakdown of their relationship, the two parties went through divorce procedures, and the child was raised by Wang Jun. Later, due to the inability to reach an agreement on the division of the house, in May 2023, Li Mei sued Wang Jun to the court, claiming that the house should be owned and used by her, and that Wang Jun should be paid half of the value of the house as compensation.
During the trial of the case, Li Mei applied for an appraisal of the value of the collective land use right and the attachments on the ground of the residential land, but due to Wang Jun's lack of cooperation, the house appurtenances, carports, boiler rooms and coal houses could not be measured and registered at home, and the valuation report concluded that the value of the appurtenances did not include them. During the trial, the two sides did not reach an agreement due to large differences. Considering that the collective land use certificate was handled in Li Mei's name, the court of first instance ruled that the collective land use right and the above-ground appurtenances such as the house belonged to Li Mei, and that Li Mei should pay the corresponding compensation to Wang Jun.
In July 2023, Wang Jun was dissatisfied and appealed to the Yili Prefecture Branch of the Higher People's Court of the Autonomous Region. After ascertaining the facts of the case, the presiding judge of the case, Wang Weijia, found that the dispute in the case was not large, but the two sides had deep grievances. After several unsuccessful attempts at mediation, in August 2023, Wang Weijia** heard the case.
The child has been excellent in character and learning since he was a child, and was expected to be admitted to Tsinghua University, but because of severe depression, he did not play well, and later transferred to a 985 university in Beijing, and also postponed enrollment due to illness. During the trial, Wang Jun's words made Wang Weijia's heart tighten. Because Wang Jun did not cooperate with the on-site inspection in the first instance, the assessment of the court of first instance did not include the attached carport, boiler room and coal room. If the verdict is simply made, it will inevitably further intensify the conflict between the two parties, and the relationship between the two parties will be completely broken.
I am also a mother, and I was very distressed when I heard Wang Jun say that the child was depressed. If the two parties can maintain a good relationship in the future, it will be more beneficial to the child, so protecting the child is the best solution to this case. Wang Weijia said.
After the court session, it was close to noon. Wang Weijia left Li Mei and continued to communicate with her. "Even if your relationship with Wang Jun has broken down, you still have to take care of your daughter, who is the biggest victim of this failed marriage. Your marital status has affected your children's college entrance examinations, and if you continue to oppose each other like this, if your children can't graduate from college, you will really ruin your children's future. Wang Weijia said to Li Mei.
In the chat, Li Mei gradually opened up to Wang Weijia. It turned out that the relationship between mother and daughter has always been bad, and the child suffered from depression due to the discord between his parents, and even blocked Li Mei's WeChat and was unwilling to meet her, which made Li Mei very painful. So, Wang Weijia invited Wang Duo to the court again, let the mother and daughter meet, and brought lunch from the canteen, so that they could talk while eating and eliminate the estrangement. Under the mediation of Wang Weijia, the mother and daughter finally untied the knots in their hearts, hugged each other crying, and the child also added the mother as a WeChat friend. This scene finally made Wang Weijia breathe a sigh of relief.
How to minimize the harm to children caused by disputes between parents? How to heal the psychological trauma left by family accidents to children as much as possible? These questions have always lingered in Wang Weijia's mind. Wang Weijia believes that most of the family disputes are short trivial matters in the parents, it is difficult to simply make a right and wrong treatment, there is no unified equation to solve, and it is impossible to eliminate the grievances of both parties in a few words. And the key point in handling this case well is to ease the relationship between the two parties and restore the relationship between mother and daughter. So, Wang decided to try mediation again.
On the second day after the trial, Wang Weijia took the clerk to the residence of Wang Jun and Li Mei to gain an in-depth understanding of the demands of both parties. "From the chat with you, I can feel that you all love your daughter very much, you are the only harbor and reliance on the child to shelter from the wind and rain, and now the child is still suffering from depression, if you don't think it through, it is likely to cause irreparable damage to the child, I hope you can think more about the child. In more than three hours of face-to-face communication and back-to-back mediation, the tension between the two sides gradually eased, and they basically agreed to settle the dispute by dividing the dispute in kind to avoid harm to the children due to moving.
After that, Wang Weijia worked tirelessly, went to the disputed courtyard three times, re-measured and evaluated, patiently did the ideological work of both parties, and finally determined the solution of physical division.
In September 2023, under the mediation presided over by Wang Weijia, the two parties voluntarily reached a mediation agreement, the five rooms on the left side of the first and second floors were occupied and used by Li Mei, and the five rooms on the right side of the first and second floors were occupied and used by Wang Jun. With the help of family affection, this post-marital property dispute was properly resolved, and Wang Weijia's hanging heart was finally let go.