People over sixty-nine, three places do not go, three relatives do not go" This is the ancient Chinese ancestors left us a precept, this ancient precept is that the elderly need to avoid some bad things when they reach a certain ageThis sentence also has a certain reference significance for the elderly now.
Dealing with people requires enthusiasm and prudence, and this ancient saying can guide future generations on how to better behave in the world.
Next, tell everyoneWhich three places for the elderly cannot go, and which three kinds of relatives should try not to move around.
One or three places do not go
1.The sad place does not go
The first place that seniors over 69 years old don't go to is the sad place, and the sad place is just thatIt is a place that can easily evoke memories of sad pasts.
The elderly have a lot of emotional experiences, and their sad places may have painful memories, such as pictures of the death of loved ones, which will trigger their inner pain and cause too much emotional fluctuations, which will affect their mood and even affect the normal rhythm of life.
In order not to let the elderly be immersed in this sad emotion, we should let them avoid being in this sad place for a long time, so as to avoid their mood swings too much and affect their physical and mental health.
2.The land of right and wrong does not go
The second kind of place that you can't go to is the place of right and wrong, and the place of right and wrong refers to the place where quarrels and contradictions are likely to occur.
If the elderly go to this kind of right and wrong, they may be involved in some troubles and difficulties that are not necessary, and the elderly are too oldPsychological stress will be relatively weak
If you can't face gossip and right and wrong, it will affect your mood and may even endanger your own life.
To avoid the elderly being involved in this vortex,We should avoid and remind the elderly to go to places of right and wrong.
3.Don't go to dangerous places
The third place you can't go to is the dangerous place. Danger is everywhere, but for dangerous places, the lives of the elderly will be at risk.
A dangerous place is a place where there are some potential safety risksIt could be a high mountain or a rushing river.
These places are prone to the risk of falling or drowning.
The older the elderly are, the more their physical functions gradually decline, and their reflexes will also decline, and their reaction to emergencies is not agile enoughIt will be life-threatening.
This kind of dangerous place should be avoided by the elderly as much as possible, not only for the safety of their own lives, but also for the sake of their families.
The second and third relatives do not leave
In addition to the above three places, the elderly should try not to go, and there are three kinds of relatives to avoid coming and goingDoing these six things is good for the family and for yourself.
1.Snobbish relatives don't go
The first is to try not to go back and forth with snobbish relativesSnobbish relatives value power and money, and they will treat relatives differently between these factors.
This kind of relatives often value profit over righteousness, have a weak sense of responsibility, and recognize money but not relativesIf we continue to do so, it will affect and hurt the feelings of the elderly.
When this kind of relatives need help from others, they often only value interests, rather than simply want to help others, and in the face of this kind of interest relationship, there are also some difficulties in getting along in the future.
Moreover, the elderly are not quick in thinking, and they are easily deceived and deceived by their snobbish relatives, which will not only affect family relationships, but also affect their own health.
Therefore, in the face of these snobbish relatives of the elderly, they should keep their distanceTry to avoid frequent movements.
2.Ruthless relatives don't go
The second type of relatives try to avoid contact, and that is the ruthless relatives.
Ruthless relatives are those who are cold and ruthless and do not value family affectionSuch relatives often turn a blind eye when family members need help and care.
If we associate with such relatives regularly, it will be detrimental to us when the time comes to reach out to them.
The body of the elderly weakens with age, and if they are stepped on by relatives in difficult situations, it is not good for physical and mental health.
Therefore, you should let go of associating with such relatives, or try to avoid associating.
3.Love to gossip and don't go
The third type of relatives try not to interact, that is, relatives who like to gossip, most of these relatives like to tell right and wrong and spread some rumors to confuse each other.
And this kind of gossip relatives can destroy family harmony,Affect the relationship between family members, hurt the relationship between the two parties, and it is easy to backstab family members and watch them kill each other.
If the elderly person often moves around with such gossiping relatives, it will also be difficult to maintain a place in the family members.
If you get involved in the whirlpool, it will lead to unnecessary disputes, can also cause damage to our own identity and mood, in order to avoid these **uh potential threats, we should try to avoid getting along or be cautious.
Conclusion
The above is the specific analysis of the ancient sayingsThe three places refer to the land of danger, the place of sorrow, and the land of right and wrong. The three types refer to snobbish relatives, gossip relatives, and ruthless relatives.
If you want to make your family more harmonious, you should avoid going to these three places and be cautious about interacting with these three types of relatives, so as to avoid too many mood swings affecting your physical and mental health.