There are a lot of ancient "ancient precepts" in rural areas, which are designed to educate and enlighten future generations, such as the ancient rural saying "people over 60, three places do not go, three relatives do not go", which is one of the "ancient precepts" of the ancestors, which hides the great wisdom of life and is passed on to future generations.
The old saying in the countryside "If a person is over 60, he will not go to three places, and his relatives will not leave", why does it say that after a person reaches the age of 60, there are three places that cannot go?There are 3 types of relatives who can't move around?What kind of great wisdom is hidden in the world?
Because of the current problems, everyone understands, because everyone's comprehensive quality is different, the benevolent and the wise see the wise, the following is a specific analysis of these problems for your reference.
Let's take a look first, "people over sixty", what three places can't go?Why can't you go?
Don't go to remote and unfamiliar places. Remote and unfamiliar places, the elderly are unfamiliar and do not understand, indicating that these places are full of many uncertain factors, and there will even be traps and dangers.
Because, after the age of 60, all aspects of physical health and quality, not as good as before, such as the road is difficult to walk, bumpy, there are landslides, rockfalls, trenches and other dangerous problems, the elderly due to physical fitness, can not overcome these problems, will produce some uncertain factors, such as dizziness, physical strength can not support, there are falls and injuries, fall danger and so on, therefore, it is recommended that the elderly do not go to these remote and strange places. , try not to go to places that do not match your identity, and keep yourself clean. In some entertainment places in rural areas, such as karaoke, KTV, card rooms, billiards, game rooms, children's playgrounds and so on, the elderly have no demand for this at all.
Because, firstly, because the elderly are old, these places are not suitable for the entertainment of the elderly, and there is no need to go to those places to join in the fun, and secondly, these places are all profitable, and it is necessary to spend money to go to that place.
Since the elderly in rural areas have no pension, only a pension of more than 100 yuan per month, how can they have spare money to engage in entertainment consumption?Therefore, if it is not suitable for the elderly to go, try not to go, and it is the best policy to clean yourself. , try not to go to places that are easy to provoke right and wrong. Some people in rural areas, due to their lack of cultural and moral cultivation, speak openly and are unwilling to use their brains in doing things, and it is very easy to provoke and create right and wrong.
Therefore, the elderly in rural areas are too old and frail to help their families do farm work, so when chatting, don't go to those who like to play right and wrong, so as to avoid "not eating mutton and getting into trouble".
The elderly in rural areas should be clear about "people over 60 and not going to three places", but what are the three kinds of relatives who "people are over 60 and their relatives do not leave"?People over sixty, interpersonal relationships should be carefully grasped, let's take a look at which three relatives try not to go?
It's relatives who are much richer than themselves don't go. There are some people in the countryside who have a bad habit of always "loving the rich and hating the poor", and the elderly are unable to earn money to support themselves because of their age, so they have to drag down their families, so their family life is very unsatisfactory and they are not as good as others.
Relatives are much richer than their own family, such relatives, when there is no important matter, the old man must not go around at will, to avoid relatives dislike our elderly, and even suffer from humiliation and cynicism, therefore, the elderly over 60 years old should be self-respecting, do not go to relatives who are much richer than their own family to move around, to avoid attracting bad treatment, affecting the mood of the elderly.
It is relatives who do not have integrity and morality not to go. Some people in the rural areas, because of their relatively low cultural and moral cultivation, do not stress honesty and do not pay attention to deception, and do not pay attention to morality, benevolence and righteousness, and no matter how old or young, as long as there are profitable things, they will inevitably do things that are unseemly.
Therefore, even if the elderly in rural areas have something to ask for, they should also find relatives who are honest and moral, and never go to these relatives who are not honest and moral, and when they have nothing to do, there is no need to go to the door and walk around, so as to avoid provoking unfair treatment.
It's relatives who like to be sarcastic behind their backs, don't go. Some people in rural areas, due to problems of personal cultivation, treat the people and things around them in front of them and behind them, and always sarcastically ridicule others afterwards, creating unexpected big rights and wrongs.
Rural elderly, they should know which relatives like to be sarcastic and sarcastic behind their backs, and they must remember to move around as little as possible to avoid being ruthlessly sarcastic and sarcastic behind their backs.
All in all, these ancient sayings in the countryside are really well said, "If a person is over sixty, he will not go to the three places, and the three relatives will not leave", which implies the great wisdom of people's life, and I really admire the wisdom of the ancients.
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