Hi dear friends! Today we're going to talk about a tangled topic: don't let a breakup start a hurt! These three things must not be doneYou may want to ask, what's there to worry about about breaking up? Isn't it just a breakup? What's the big deal. Actually, breaking up is not a simple thing, and it can cause harm to you and the other person. So, if you don't want the breakup to be the start of harm, be sure to pay attention to these three things. So, what are these three things? Let's find out together!
1. Don't be stubborn.
After a breakup, many people will stalk their ex because they are unwilling or reluctant. For example, constantly calling, texting, sending gifts, and even stalking the other person. These actions will not only make the other person feel disgusted and annoying, but they will also make you lose your dignity and respect. For example, Xiao Zhang and Xiao Li are a couple who have been together for two years. Recently, they had an argument over some small things and then broke up. After the breakup, Xiao Zhang felt very unwilling, he kept calling and texting Xiao Li, saying that he still loved her and wanted to get back together with her. Xiao Li felt very irritable, and she didn't know what to do. She felt that Xiao Zhang was very boring, boring, and tasteless. She even felt that Xiao Zhang was harassing her and violating her privacy. She wanted to block Xiao Zhang, but she felt that it was too cruel. Therefore, she endured Xiao Zhang's harassment until one day, she couldn't bear it anymore, so she blocked Xiao Zhang.
2. Don't speak ill of each other.
When breaking up, many people will speak ill of their ex because they are angry or sad. For example, speaking ill of the other person, attacking the other person's family, and revealing the other person's privacy. These actions will not only make the other person feel sad and angry, but they will also make you lose your image and character. For example, Xiao Wang and Xiao Zhao are a couple who have been together for a year. Recently, they broke up due to some personality incompatibility. When they broke up, Xiao Wang felt very angry, he felt that Xiao Zhao was playing with his feelings and using him. He said a lot of ugly things to Xiao Zhao, such as that she was a green tea, that she was a money worshipper, and that she was a scheming girl. Xiao Zhao felt very aggrieved, helpless, and helpless. She didn't know how to face Xiao Wang. She felt that Xiao Wang was too much and too shameless. So, she chose to be silent. She didn't say anything to Xiao Wang, nor did she say anything to anyone. She just silently endured Xiao Wang's injuries alone, until one day, she couldn't bear it anymore, so she chose to ss herself.
3. Don't be seamless.
After a breakup, many people will seamlessly transition to the next one in order to forget about their ex as soon as possible, or to prove their charm. For example, within a few days or weeks of a breakup, you start dating, dating, or living together. These actions will not only disappoint and break the other person's feelings, but also make you lose your true heart and true love. For example, Xiao Liu and Xiao Chen are a couple who have been together for five years. Recently, they broke up for some reason that their life goals did not coincide. After the breakup, Xiao Liu felt very sad, he felt that he had lost the person he loved the most. He wanted to cover up his pain with new feelings, so he began to date, fall in love, and live together with others. However, he found that he couldn't forget Xiao Chen at all, and he couldn't invest in new feelings. He felt empty, lonely, and helpless. Therefore, he chose to give up his new relationship and returned to his single life. However, he found that he had missed out on a lot of people who were really right for him.
Okay, that's all for today. Guys, have you all learned? Actually, breaking up is not a simple thing, and it can cause harm to you and the other person. So, if you don't want the breakup to be the start of harm, be sure to pay attention to these three things. Finally, I would like to say to all my friends: "Breaking up is a choice, not a harm. "I also hope you can like, comment, and follow me, and let's ** more interesting topics together!
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