When someone you like has a partner, whether or not to bother him depends on a number of factors, including your feelings for him, his feelings, your relationship, and moral and ethical considerations. Here are some points to consider:
1.*Respect his current situation**: It is important to respect his current relationship. Not disturbing him means not interfering in his life and that of his subjects, avoiding distress or discomfort for them.
2.*How you feel**: Think about how much you like him and how that liking affects you. If continuing to disturb him makes you feel miserable or unable to let go, you may want to consider keeping your distance.
3.His feelings and wishes Consider his attitude towards you and whether he feels the same way about you. If he has no interest in you or he wishes to stay focused with his object, it may not be a good idea to disturb him.
4.Ethics and ethics In this case, it is important to follow moral and ethical principles. Attempts should not be made to spoil other people's feelings or interfere with their well-being.
5.*Self-Growth and Letting Go**: Focus your attention on your own growth and letting go. Try to develop your life and look for other interests and social opportunities, which will help you gradually move out of liking him.
Most importantly, respect the well-being and boundaries of others. If you really like him, probably the best way is to respect his choices and try to find your own happiness. If you're feeling confused or can't handle the situation, it may be helpful to talk to a friend, family member, or professional counselor.