When your boyfriend is arguing with his mom, here are some suggestions to consider:
1.*Stay Calm**: Start by staying calm and don't react impulsively when you're emotional.
2.*Listen to both sides**: Give your boyfriend and his mom the opportunity to listen and let them express their opinions and feelings.
3.*Avoid favoritism**: Try to be neutral and don't take sides or join an argument.
4.Facilitate communication: Help them find the right way to communicate and encourage them to listen and understand each other.
5.*Give space**: Give them some space and time to calm down if needed and avoid continuing the argument in a tense atmosphere.
6.*Come up with a solution**: Solve the problem together, find compromises and common solutions.
7.*Show care and support**: Let your boyfriend know that you care about his feelings, while also showing your respect and understanding to his mom.
8.*Respect Family Relationships**: Encourage your boyfriend and his mom to maintain a good family relationship, emphasizing the importance of mutual respect and tolerance.
9.*Avoid over-involvement**: Try to avoid getting overly involved in their arguments and let them figure things out on their own.
10.*Seek outside help**: If the problem persists or cannot be resolved, consider seeking family counseling or other professional help.
The most important thing is to be flexible on a case-by-case basis, respecting each person's feelings and working to promote harmonious family relationships. At the same time, maintain good communication with your boyfriend to face and solve problems together.