I am in debt of millions, and there are people around me who are in debt of more than 10 million, and they are all still alive and strong, but I have seen from the Internet that many people who owe tens of thousands of debts have chosen to cut themselves off.
If debt can crush a person, then those who are driven to suicide are a good example. But I don't think debt can crush a person, so what is it that crushes a person?
In the past five or six years of my debt, I have been under too much pressure in my heart, and I have also experienced some painful symptoms physically because of the stress. There have been many times when I have wondered if I will never be able to get up in this life, and I will never be able to turn over?
The more thoughts like this, the more anxious I become, and the more anxious I become, the more I don't know what to do! Without calm thinking, there will be no effective action, and they will begin to lie down and fall into a vicious circle. Later, when I read a book, I realized that my current situation is called "internal friction", this kind of repeated self-torture, negative imagination is self-internal friction.
Many people who are in debt will experience this process of internal friction, and in severe cases, it may even lead to severe depression. At first, I didn't want to communicate with people, I didn't want to talk, I didn't want to do anything meaningful, I just wanted to lie in bed and sleep. Because when you fall asleep, you can stop thinking nonsense, and you can temporarily leave the problem of reality - escape.
Finally, one day I calmly recalled some of my experiences, heard some words from some people, and saw some positive words in the book. I suddenly had an epiphany - life is just a process, and I am only here to experience the ups and downs of all this. If you have the ability to make your life better, of course, it is ideal, if you don't have that ability, then let go of your obsession and pursue what you can get by tiptoeing!
For the matter of debt, it is not a big deal after I look down on all this, the reason why some people choose to commit suicide because of debt, and they are easily crushed by debt, is that their hearts are not strong enough! They don't understand it in the process of life practice, or they are too impulsive and act too aggressively, and being crushed is a sign of cowardice, a desire to escape from everything they are facing.
Maybe there is a better way out for the debtors, to be crushed? No, it is possible that this pressure is a precursor to the debtor's success. If you carry it, it may be a smooth road, but if you can't carry it, you will die in the middle of the road.
It is not only the debt that crushes a person, it is most likely the debtor himself. Just like I used to torture myself, I always imagined something bad that hadn't happened yet. I always have no hope for tomorrow, but now I am still alive and well, except for no money, I don't lack anything, I don't lack a healthy body, I don't lack a happy family, I don't lack inner fulfillment.
The same debtor, with tens of millions of debts still alive, for people with tens of thousands of debts, why do you think that your life is over? You must know that people have infinite possibilities, and those who are worth millions of dollars are also under unimaginable pressure.
It takes courage to live, it takes strong willpower, and people who are in debt need these even more, regardless of the return date, just hurry and believe that one day your life will change. No one's life is easy, it's just that some people start from a different starting point. Do what you should do, what should come will always come, and no matter how much you think about what you shouldn't come, it's just internal friction yourself.
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