Children are a piece of meat in the hearts of parents, and this sentence is not false at all. Everyone who has raised a child knows that from the first sight of the child when he is born, he is destined to never forget it in this life.
If you get lost with your child halfway, I'm afraid that when you are about to close your eyes, the biggest regret in life is that you want to see your child for the last time!
There is such a mother in Henan, seeing that her body is not as good as day by day, and she has no other regrets, but she can't forget her eldest son who ran away 26 years ago.
In order to fulfill his mother's wishes, the mother's youngest son decided to apologize for his parents for what happened back then, and only hoped that his brother would come back to see his mother as soon as possible.
On January 5, 2024, Henan Metropolis Channel released a special missing person notice.
*, a middle-aged man stood in front of the camera and said this paragraph affectionately:
In the past, no matter what our mother and father did to you, you knew it in your heart.
What our mother said was wrong, I'll say sorry to you for our father and mother!
Now our mother's health is not as good as day by day, I hope you will come back to see our mother as soon as possible!
When you come back, you decide whether you want to stay or want to go out.
The family doesn't expect you to make much effort, our father and mother miss you very much, come back, brother!”
After the middle-aged man finished speaking, he bowed affectionately to the camera!
Behind the man was a hospital bed, and a white-haired old lady was lying on the hospital bed, with tears streaming down her face, presumably the middle-aged man's mother.
At the back, there is also a picture of the person you need to find**, as well as identity information.
Here are a few key pieces of information that can be found from the content:
1.The person who needs to be found is the elder brother of the narrator in **, named Yang Wanjun, born in 1977 and working in Wenzhou, Zhejiang.
2.Yang Wanjun ran away 26 years ago, and it can be known from his younger brother's tone that Yang Wanjun's parents should have something to do with him, which made him leave home in a bad mood.
26 years ago, Yang Wanjun was 20 years old and was already an adult, not an impulsive child, since he was able to run away from home for more than 20 years, it shows that the hurt back then must have been very deep.
3.Yang Wanjun's mother is seriously ill and bedridden, and she very much wants to see her son, maybe even the last.
4.The last Yang Wanjun's ** was about 40 years old, and Yang Wanjun was only 20 years old when he ran away from home, which obviously did not match the image in **.
This shows a problem, after Yang Wanjun ran away from home, his family is very likely to be able to contact Yang Wanjun himself through direct or indirect channels, so there will be his recent **.
After understanding these basic information, let's take a look at the ** who apologized to his brother on behalf of his parents and begged him to go home to see him, and we will have a deeper understanding of this matter.
In view of this, netizens have expressed their opinions.
Many netizens feel that it can be seen from the younger brother's vague apology that the elder brother's negative departure back then is likely to be inseparable from his parents' partiality towards his younger brother.
This is not groundless, and everyone understands the truth of "not suffering from a small number but suffering from unevenness".
There are several children in the family, and it is often difficult for parents to achieve a bowl of water, if it is just a small thing, but some parents are also easy to be confused in big things, and there will inevitably be an anger in the end.
This is also a key reason for most family discord.
How many 26 years are there in life?
For Yang Wanjun, who ran away from home, his stay at home has not been as long as after he ran away from home, and it can be said that he has been adrift for most of his life.
When he needed the warmth of his family the most, his family didn't look for him, why did he think of looking for him back after he had been safe and secure for decades?
Some people speculate that now that his mother is seriously ill in bed, and the younger brother is looking for his brother, does he want him to come back to fulfill his obligation to support his parents and help his younger brother bear his mother's medical expenses?
Some netizens said: "This is a kind of cyberbullying, which can be seen in the way this family behaves." ”
The reason why this netizen said this is because they can obviously contact Yang Wanjun through other channels, apologize to him in person, and ask him to go home.
It can be seen from the information in ** that since they can get Yang Wanjun's recent **, they must also be able to contact him.
Some people feel that it is not appropriate for Yang Wanjun's younger brother to apologize to his brother on behalf of his parents.
No matter who you are, if you make a mistake, you have to admit it, even if it is your parents, since you know that Yang Wanjun's parents are wrong, why can't you take the initiative to admit your mistakes?
Even now, they are still adopting an evasive attitude, are they truly repentant?
Or is it really as netizens said, the purpose is not simple?
Actually, in my opinion, this is a simple younger brother looking for his brother through **, hoping that his mother will see his brother for the last time before he dies**.
There are not too many twists and turns, and Yang Wanjun's younger brother also made it very clear in **, "The family doesn't need you to make much effort."
Perhaps, now Yang Wanjun's younger brother's family is doing well, but after his parents are old, they miss their eldest son very much.
For Yang Wanjun, maybe his parents were ashamed of him, but in any case, it was his parents who raised him, and no one can change this.
Take 10,000 steps back, even if it is really because his mother is seriously ill and needs his eldest son to fulfill his filial piety, this is also his obligation.
If his parents and brothers wanted him to fulfill his obligations, they didn't have to beat around the bush at all, and went directly to him and let him support the elderly through legal means
Why bother?
In my opinion, the reason why Yang Wanjun's parents and younger brother are looking for his brother through the Internet is not for "moral kidnapping", but to give him a step.
In fact, many times, the contradictions between people are not so big that they don't share the sky, let alone the closest blood relatives
Yang Wanjun may have had a lot of resentment towards his parents back then, but 26 years have passed, and no matter how big the resentment is, it will dissipate over time.
Blood is thicker than water, he may not want to see his parents again, but he left home in a bad mood, and after many years of separation, he has forced himself to a situation where there is no way out.
As a younger brother, at this time, if Yang Wanjun really has the heart, he will definitely be able to walk down the steps, which is completely beneficial to the family.
Relatives are not enemies, and there is always a time to let go. If you don't want to regret it years later, please cherish the present!