Introduction:
Life is the dojo, and suffering is the practice. Everything in the world, the good is reward, and the bad is grinding. Some people say, "Everything in the world that grinds you will come to cross you." This article is with you**!
Doom, temper your mentality
Psychologist Frankl once said, "Anyone, everywhere, will meet with bad luck." ”
Just like a person who has lost his left leg, if he has been immersed in the loss of his left leg and does not have the courage to face life, then he will not be able to see beautiful things, it is equivalent to losing his eyes; If he doesn't want to participate in the beauty of this world, it is equivalent to losing his right leg; If you don't hear any good news, you lose both ears.
In the end, he lost his entire life in grief.
In the face of the invasion of bad luck, if you can cultivate a good attitude, learn to heal yourself, and shield away negative emotions, you will not be able to defeat or defeat. Only in the face of doom can we cultivate a strong heart and achieve self-redemption.
Break things and exercise your abilities
Teacher Cheng Jie often said: People practice in things, but if they don't do things, how can they have the ability?
Encountering broken things is tempering, and those who can solve bad things will definitely be able to grow new skills.
Bad things at work test your ability; The bad things in life test your mentality, and it is the bad things in this life that create your cultivation.
When you have gone through the baptism of those bad things and tempered your true skills in the struggle, your opportunities will follow.
Rotten people, make your pattern
There is no shortage of people in this world who hurt you, and if you keep these wicked people in your heart all the time, it will consume your own heart and energy.
Bai Yansong once said: "It is not glorious to defeat a dog, but it is unlucky to be bitten by a dog." ”
The best way to deal with rotten people is not to entangle and ignore them.
If you fight back at his upper line everywhere, then he will always have countless tricks waiting for you, on the surface you have won, but in fact you have entered the same magnetic field as him.
He is strong, he is strong, and the breeze blows on the hills. He is crossed by him, and the bright moon shines on the river. You always have to understand that the sand in your eyes can feed your own pattern.
In a limited life, we should all spend our time on people and things that are worthwhile.