Tips for improving emotional intelligence.
How to improve your ability to deal with the world, so that you can be loved by everyone and flowers bloom? This **whole process dry goods, it is recommended to save repeatedly**. Especially for young people who are new to society, to quickly improve their emotional intelligence, the following is a stinky problem that you must get rid of.
First, get rid of the stinky problem of self-centeredness. When talking to people, use less and I use more, you don't always say I think, but ask the other person more, what do you think?
Second, get rid of the stinky problem of unobstructed. The so-called shallow communication is indescribable, especially for people who are not familiar with each other, don't ask others as soon as you come up, and don't reveal yourself.
Third, get rid of the stinky problem of being a good teacher. You can share your opinions, and don't teach others how to do it, because if you say it right, others will not appreciate you, and if you say it wrong, others will only hate you.
Fourth, talk about other people's stinky faults behind your back. The so-called one person who is right and wrong must be right and wrong.
Fifth, get rid of the stinky problem of being noble in front of people. For example, if you recently changed a new car and your colleague asks you how much it costs, don't be stupid and say it directly, but learn to complain. You can say something like this: don't mention it, I saved up money for two years before and after this car, and I made some money with my parents, and if it wasn't for my wife forcing me to buy it, I would have wanted to save a little money.
Sixth, get rid of the stinky problem of being straightforward and fast-talking. As the saying goes, it's better to see through and not say that it is better to save face, especially in the face of those who love around you, the so-called people who see through and don't expose it, hate it and don't turn their faces, smile, and have precautions but don't say it but know it, and can do it with a clear pretend to be confused, is a really smart person.
Seventh, get rid of the stinky problem of not daring to refuse others. Especially when you encounter a dilemma, you must learn to refuse happily, because not wasting each other's time is the greatest respect for both parties.
Eighth, get rid of the stinky problem of loving to tell the truth. For example, if a friend is not in a good relationship and complains to you, at this time, don't pretend to be a love saint, saying that he is not doing well or doing well, because what the other party needs most at this time is empathy, not any suggestion.
Nine, get rid of the stinky problem of not talking about money. Especially for women who have helped them, such as a friend who brings you cosmetics back on a business trip, you must send a few more red envelopes when you transfer money, and your colleague asks you how to give more, so you reply lightly: Yes, I'm still worried about giving less, and I will have to trouble you next time.
10. Get rid of the stinky problem that won't boast about people. The so-called gift is not to blame, and praise is the most cost-effective gift. Don't say that you are stupid and won't praise people, here is a free tip for you, that is, to talk the opposite, first suppress and then promote.