Oops, the recent topic of "tolerance after marriage has become higher" has simply caused a sensation on the whole network! This thing is really interesting, like a scoop of cold water poured on our heads with beautiful illusions about marriage, which makes everyone sober up a lot. Today, let's take a good look at this matter and see if we can tear off the truth of marriage in the current society.
First of all, let's talk about what this "tolerance has become higher after marriage" is all about. Do you think, before getting married, everyone was a free single aristocrat, and it was normal to be a little tempered and petty. But once you get married, it's like entering a "besieged city", and two people want to live together, and all kinds of problems come. For example, you like to litter your socks, and I like to keep my house in order; You like spicy food, but I can't touch it at all. These small things may not be a matter before marriage, but after marriage, they may lead to a "big war".
However, the strange thing is that many people will find that they are more tolerant after marriage. For example, before marriage, you may be so angry that you see the other party throwing away your socks, but after marriage, you can silently pick them up and wash them off; Before marriage, you may make a big fuss because of a little thing, but after marriage, you can look at each other and smile and pass. Why is that? In fact, this is the truth of marriage!
Marriage is not only the love of two people, but also a responsibility and commitment. When we enter the palace of marriage, it means that we must learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, and learn to understand and be considerate of each other. This is not to say that we have to grieve ourselves, but to find a balance in marriage so that both of us can live comfortably.
As someone said: "Marriage is like a marathon, not those who run fast can win the race, but those who can persevere to the end." In this process, we need to learn to be tolerant and patient, just like the Sichuan dialect "does not exist", don't be "hairy" because of a little thing, learn to be "Buddhist" a little, look down on some small problems, and look at each other's goodness.
Of course, the fact that tolerance has become higher after marriage does not mean that we have to completely give up our principles and bottom line. If the other party really makes a mistake of principle, such as cheating and domestic violence, then we can't "turn a blind eye", we still have to "get up" when we should "get up", and we still have to "pull the handle" when we should "pull the handle". After all, marriage is based on mutual respect and trust, and if this can't be done, then what kind of marriage is there to talk about?
In conclusion, I would like to say that marriage is not an easy thing to do, and we need to manage it with our hearts. In this process, we must learn to tolerate each other and learn to love ourselves. Don't lose yourself in order to cater to the other person, and maintain your independence and individuality. Only in this way can we find true happiness in our marriage.
Okay, that's all for today's article. I hope you can have some insights after reading it, and you are also welcome to leave a message in the comment area to share your marriage story and experience. Finally, I wish you all a happy marriage!
Remember, "Smile, ten years less", no matter what difficulties you encounter, you must maintain an optimistic attitude, believe in love, and believe in marriage! Family marital affection