In the long river of life, with the accumulation of experience and the precipitation of wisdom, we have gradually formed our own cognitive system. But even if our cognition has reached the ground, we still need to be careful about how we communicate and interact with others. Because educating others is not a simple matter, it involves differences in emotions, experiences and values between people.
First, we need to understand that everyone has their own growth trajectory and life experiences, and these unique experiences shape their unique ways of knowing and behaving. Just as there are no two leaves in the world that are exactly the same, and no two people are exactly the same. Therefore, even if we think that our knowledge is already high, we cannot easily educate others, because our knowledge may not be fully applicable to others.
Furthermore, everyone has their own self-esteem and self-confidence. If we easily express our opinions and try to educate others, we may inadvertently touch their sensitive points, leading to unnecessary conflicts and contradictions. Such behavior may not only hurt others, but may also consume our own energy and emotions.
Therefore, the wisest thing to do is to maintain an open and inclusive attitude, respecting the views and choices of others. We should allow others to be themselves, rather than trying to mold them into what we think they are. In the same way, we need to allow ourselves to be ourselves, to maintain our own independent thinking and personality.
At the same time, we must also understand a truth: the rain is not moist and there is no rootless grass, and the Dao is wide and only crosses the destined people. Meaning, even if it rains heavily in the sky, it will not be able to moisten the grass that has no roots; In the same way, no matter how broad the Dao is, it can only pass through those who are destined. This tells us that our wisdom and knowledge may only affect those who are related to us, but not everyone. Therefore, we don't have to be too demanding, and we don't have to be too self-conscious.
In conclusion, I would like to say that life is like a vast forest, and everyone is a tree or a flower in it. Each tree has its own unique posture and growth trajectory, and each flower has its own unique beauty and fragrance. We should allow them to grow and bloom freely, rather than trying to mold them into a uniform appearance. In the same way, we need to allow ourselves to be ourselves, to pursue our dreams and goals, and to express our unique charm.
On the road of life, we should maintain a humble and tolerant attitude, respect the views and choices of others, and also respect our own independent thinking and personality characteristics. We should allow others to be ourselves, and we should also allow ourselves to be ourselves, let the flowers become flowers, let the trees become trees, and everything is just as it happens. In this way, we can continue to learn and grow and become a better version of ourselves in the journey of life.