In the journey of life, everyone longs to find their own happiness. Some people place their source of happiness in others, expecting to find fulfillment through their approval, appreciation, or companionship; Others, on the other hand, know that true happiness comes from peace and self-sufficiency, and they don't need anyone to bring happiness to themselves, because they understand that this is a person's greatest self-confidence.
True self-confidence is not blindly believing that you are omnipotent, nor is it vanity based on the praise and praise of others. It is an inward, firm belief in one's ability to face all the challenges in life and to maintain inner peace and resilience no matter how the external environment changes. And this self-confidence is built on the basis of not needing anyone to bring happiness to yourself.
When a person no longer relies on external recognition and approval to define his happiness, he has already mastered the autonomy of happiness. His heart is full, his emotions are stable, and he is able to face the challenges of life calmly, because he knows that no matter how the outside world changes, he can find that happiness in his heart.
And those who claim to be confident, but pin their happiness on others, their "self-confidence" is actually an illusion of vulnerability. Their emotions are susceptible to outside influences, and their self-esteem needs to be constantly affirmed and maintained by others. Such "self-confidence" is like a mirage, which seems spectacular, but it cannot withstand a little wind and grass. As soon as the external environment changes, their self-confidence will collapse in an instant, because they do not really grasp the autonomy of happiness.
True self-confidence is an inner strength that allows us to maintain inner peace and resilience in the face of life's ups and downs. It allows us to calmly face the evaluation of others without wavering our beliefs because of praise or criticism from the outside world. It allows us to maintain our initial enthusiasm and determination on the way to pursue our dreams, no matter how many difficulties and challenges we encounter.
Therefore, we should strive to cultivate our inner strength and learn to find happiness from the depths of our hearts. We should learn to appreciate our own growth and progress, and learn to remain resilient and optimistic in the face of setbacks. We should believe in our own value and ability, and believe that no matter how the external environment changes, we can find our own happiness.
When we truly take control of our happiness, our self-confidence becomes stronger and more authentic. Because we know that our happiness is not based on others, but on our own hearts. This kind of self-confidence is the real strength of self-confidence, which can make us go further and more steadily in the journey of life.
Happy autonomy goes hand-in-hand with true self-confidence. It is only when we truly take control of our happiness that our self-confidence becomes more firm and real. And only when we have true self-confidence, can we better grasp the autonomy of happiness and make our lives more fulfilling and beautiful.