When a child enters junior high school, it also means that the child begins to enter "puberty". Of course, some students who don't like to be tied down often come into conflict with their parents and teachers. There are always a few bullies in the school that students dare not mess with. The teacher is not a big fan.
After entering junior high school, girls are relatively easy to manage, but some junior high school girls are not very likable. After entering junior high school, these three types of girls are not very popular with teachers, so parents should be aware of this.
01.Girls who love makeup.
I've been living in my hometown for a while now. During that time, my niece was in her second year of junior high school, and I would pick her up from school every weekend and drop her off on Sundays.
I chatted with her on the way to pick her up. She said that there was a girl in the class who was very good at makeup. Every morning when she wakes up, she spends a certain amount of time doing this. For this reason, the teacher suspended the class several times, but she still insisted on putting on makeup.
My niece's classmate said: I am used to wearing makeup, and I dare not go out without makeup.
Junior high school students are not young at all, but they are not adults at all. Most schools still prohibit makeup from middle school students.
Some time ago, I participated in an event and met an adolescent psychological counselor who specializes in solving psychological problems for children and students. Some time ago, she was doing psychic ** for a girl who likes to wear makeup. The girl's parents are both senior professionals, but she is helpless with her daughter. Maybe it was because she was too strict when she was a child, but her daughter just likes to wear makeup, and she wears a lot of makeup. , often wear strong eyeshadow and very bright lipstick.
Although quality education and the diversified development of children are now advocated, schools in most areas prohibit students from wearing makeup. Therefore, if your child always likes to wear makeup to school in junior high school, it may cause "disgust" from the teacher because this behavior is a public violation of school rules.
02.Girls who love to swear.
Swearing is a bad habit, let alone a girl. Even if a guy swears a lot, it can make people feel impolite and uneducated.
When they were in junior high school, children liked to be different, they liked to be different, they liked to be different, and they liked to use these to show that they had grown up and matured.
While this behavior may seem childish, it is actually a stage that every child must go through.
Some children become rebellious because they reach puberty, while others become rebellious because of family reasons.
There was once a student whose parents didn't get along well. When he was in the first year of junior high school, he was very shy and rarely spoke loudly. In the first half of the first year of junior high school, he got close to several girls outside the school, and his personality gradually changed. , began to learn to put on makeup, swear, and even fight. By the time I was in my second year of junior high school, I had already held a meeting to ask my classmates for protection money.
Therefore, such a character of children is not developed overnight, and there is a reason for this with parents. Maybe the parents are too strict, or maybe the parents are negligent in disciplining.
03.A girl who often contradicts her teacher.。
The discipline in the class is quite chaotic! "The teacher took maternity leave for a while. When he returned to school, he saw the disorganization of the class. The teacher is a little angry!
At this time, a student said, "Teacher, today is not bad, but it used to be worse!"
The teacher smiled and said, "Really?" The teacher has a big face, right?
At this moment a girl spoke, and said in a medium voice: Her face is bigger, bigger than before!
The teacher looked at the girl silently and did not speak. This happened when we were in junior high school.
Some girls will also imitate boys, they will tease the teacher and talk back to the teacher. Although the teacher criticized the boys unequivocally, and although the teacher would save some face for the girls, the teacher still felt a little uncomfortable in his heart. After all, teacher, you are no longer a child when you go to junior high school. If you always contradict the teacher, there must be some objections in the teacher's mind.
Mian's mother said: After entering junior high school, the children reach puberty, and some children are particularly difficult to manage. In fact, it is not that children are difficult to manage, but that there is no good foundation for parent-child relationship when they are young. A child's education is not an overnight thing, but a long-term process. We must learn to love our children and learn to get along with them. Only in this way will the child be willing to share with you when he reaches adolescence, and there will not be so many generation gaps.