The first lesson of the new year
Upbringing is a kind of consciousness that does not need to be reminded, a kind of freedom that is premised on constraints, and a kind of kindness that can put yourself in the shoes of others. A cultured person will be welcomed in **; And an uneducated person, no matter how high his education, can hardly gain the respect of others.
In the summer of 2022, on a hot summer day, I chirped tirelessly outside the window. I watched my child addicted to mobile games and was worried. I tried to guide him, but he only had the game's ** in his eyes. Eventually, I had to forcibly confiscate his phone. At that moment, his eyes turned angry, he scolded me, and even wanted to hit me. I held back and didn't fight back, but I felt sad in my heart. Is this my child? How did he become so uneducated?
Time is like flowing water, and in a blink of an eye, it is more than 12:00 p.m. on the second day of the Lunar New Year in 2024. It was late at night, and I was exhausted and ready to rest. However, I didn't continue to listen to him because he wanted to continue to "give a speech (whining)", and he hurt people and scolded me for being "**". I was stunned, and I had mixed feelings. This is the Chinese New Year, and he rushed home for the New Year, I don't want to spoil the atmosphere of the New Year, and it didn't break out. But I realized a reality because of this: an uneducated child, no matter how many books he reads and how high his education is, his future will inevitably decline!
Educating children is not only about letting them learn knowledge, but more importantly, cultivating their upbringing. A cultured person is not only able to gain the respect of others, but also to achieve success. Because they know how to get along with people, how to respect others, and how to deal with problems. And these are all things that academic qualifications cannot give.
Upbringing is a habit and a quality. It needs to be constantly cultivated and guided in our daily lives. We want our children to know that respecting others means respecting themselves; We want children to know that when they get along with others, they must learn to empathize; We need to let children know that when they encounter problems, they must learn to deal with them calmly.
Education is more important than academic qualificationsBecause academic qualifications can only prove what you have learned, while education can prove what kind of person you are. A cultured person, whether in **, can be welcomed; And an uneducated person, no matter how high his education, can hardly gain the respect of others.
Upbringing is a kind of consciousness that does not need to be reminded, a kind of freedom that is premised on constraints, and a kind of kindness that can put yourself in the shoes of others. Let's work together to nurture our children so that they can become truly qualified people and lead to a successful life. Because, upbringing is more important than academic qualifications.