The first lesson of the new year In the restlessness of youth and the thirst for knowledge, junior high school life is like a colorful picture. The children have stepped out of the immaturity of childhood, but they have not yet been contaminated with the maturity and stability of high school. During this period, they are like newborn butterflies, trying to spread the wings of youth. The hearts of parents are like thin threads, tightly pulled, for fear that the children will lose their way in the maze of growth.
During this critical period, parents are not only concerned about their children's physical health, but also expect them to have a correct learning attitude and meet the challenges of the high school entrance examination. Adolescent children are like budding flowers, and parents' eyes are like sunshine, always paying attention, for fear that the shadow of "early love" will block their growth.
However, while parents are waiting for "early love", another potential harm, "toxic friendship", is often overlooked. This kind of relationship, it is not as conspicuous as early love, but it is like a chronic poison that quietly erodes the child's heart.
When I was a student, my closest friends were often classmates who got along day and night. A good friend is like an oasis in the desert, giving hope and strength. However, if you go astray and make bad friends, it will be a disaster for the soul.
Parents, have you noticed any children who don't take their studies seriously? They are like wild horses on the loose, allowing themselves to gallop on the steppe of recreation. The presence of such friends is like a ticking time bomb that can lure your child off the course of learning at any time.
There are also those "ghost friends" who are different from the outside, they are amiable on the surface, but they are secretly difficult to defend against behind the scenes. Their presence will not only hurt the child's feelings, but also distort the child's values.
There are also those who imitate addiction to "scholars", who imitate children's words and deeds, seemingly intimate, but in fact hide the cancer of comparison and jealousy. Such friendships are not beneficial to the development of children.
What should parents do if they find out that their children have such "toxic friendships" around them? First of all, it is necessary to guide children in time and clearly tell them what is right and what is wrong. But at the same time, we should also pay attention to ways and means to avoid excessive pressure and trigger children's rebellious psychology.
Parents should also respect their children's inner world while guiding them. Give affirmation first, and then analyze the problem together. When children feel respected and understood, they are more willing to listen and be more receptive to their parents' suggestions.
Junior high school, the crossroads of growth, the hearts of parents are with their children. Let us protect them together and guide them away from "toxic friendship" and towards a bright future.