I'm 35 years old, and I'm an older woman in the eyes of others, so it really doesn't matter to me if I'm married or not?
It's just that my parents saw that I was old, so they were anxious to ask people everywhere to arrange blind dates for me. I have been arranged a lot of blind dates.
It feels like anyone can dislike me, just like a typical tree, it's really a handful of snot and tears.
The first wonder is a superb, and the phoenix man is a civil servant. The first time we met, he asked me what was my monthly salary?
I said that I work in a public institution, and five insurances and one housing fund are deducted every month, about 4,800. As a result, I was shocked by what he said next, saying that he grew up in the countryside.
His parents sent him to school, and he had spent all his savings, so he couldn't give much dowry?
If I get married, I will have a down payment in the wedding room and write the names of two people. The mortgage was repaid together, and after I got married, I had to give him 2,000 yuan a month, because he also had a younger brother who was in college.
This 2,000 yuan is used as his brother's living expenses, and if the elderly in the family have any illnesses that need to be spent in the future, I hope I can take some money out to help.
Am I marrying a man, or am I marrying a man?
I hurriedly made an excuse and walked away.
The second one originally looked quite normal at first, and he was relatively handsome.
I was really speechless after hearing this, if I get married, what are I going to do on a blind date?
Two days later, he asked me out to dinner, and after dinner, he told me not to go back. After I refused, he messaged me and said we broke up, right?
Rich men are very realistic when it comes to finding wives, especially those over 30 years old.
You must not think that you are young and beautiful, and you have a good figure. People will be fascinated by you and willing to marry you home.
You may not like to hear what I said, but it is true.
Men who don't have money, I come into contact with the next, their requirements for the other half are either the same as the general, this social evaluation system.
Find someone who is gentle, virtuous, and can take care of the children of the family. Either it's a physiological impulse, find a young and beautiful one, and I can get married.
But they are better at one thing, that is, because their whole life is relatively simple, and the requirements for the other half are not very high. Therefore, 80% of their life experience is that their wives and children are hot on the kang, and they will pay more attention to their wives.
In fact, women often want companionship, that is, if she can give you more companionship. You are a woman who does not have such high material requirements, but in fact, you are quite happy with this kind of man.Rich men are really not exaggerating, they only have two requirements for their other half. Either it's trouble-free, or it's useful. The trouble is that your family background is relatively simple, and there will be no particularly spicy plot with you.
Some relatives who come to ask for money, or I marry you, make my whole family jump. What they pay special attention to is emotional stability, and I don't have to worry too much about being with you.
This is especially important to them, and I had dinner with a rich friend of mine two days ago. It's just that I had dinner with him a few times, and he would bring a different female companion each time.
I was curious that day, and I asked him that you said that this woman is more than a decade younger than you, and she obviously wants your money. He said I liked it a lot when they wanted my money, and if she asked me for emotional value, I really couldn't give it.
He said that because my work itself is very stressful, I am very tired every day. I want to find someone who can coax me, or be with me, and make me feel relaxed.
As a result, I am with you, and you not only want money, but you also want emotional value. Then I really can't give it, so what do they think is the practical value?
Practical value, I will tell you again. Useful is practical, that is, either your job is stable, and you have a lot of time to take care of your family and take care of your children.
For example, civil servants and teachers, either you have a little background and a little bit of social outlook.
If you can help them in your career, the worst thing is that you have strong personal ability; You have to have high emotional intelligence, and things will come. Some men who are very ambitious, when they choose their other half, they will definitely choose the kind that can help them in their careers.
You see, one of my clients told me that he was looking for a wife, and he didn't care about anything else.
Communicative skills are important, why?
Because he is in business himself, that can help him in business. Because girls' emotions are more delicate and sensitive.
Sometimes they talk about business, and the two big men just got together and can't talk. This woman will come over to set off the atmosphere and make an atmosphere activator, and then the talk is over.
Why? Each of us has different needs, and of course the choices are different. I just want to tell most girls that we must not be too naïve to think that love is all we have.
Some women want both material abundance and love nourishment, why do they always backfire?
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