Marriage between a man and a woman is a sacred and solemn thing, and it is not as simple as obtaining a license.
When a man and a woman become husband and wife, their status changes, and they also have the obligation to be faithful to each other. But this loyalty is determined by the individual's character and moral bottom line.
Relevant sociological studies have shown that men and women in the marriage track have different characteristics.
"Prone to outbursts" women have one thing in common. That's selfishness.
01: I love comparisons.
The vanity of these women is often generated in comparison. They lack basic judgment and awareness to judge their situation by their values.
Their happiness does not come from their own feelings, but from comparing themselves to others. They are more concerned about the envy of others than the happy experiences that come with marriage.
This means that what they are looking for is not necessarily a marriage that is truly suitable for them, but a marriage that conforms to the values of most people.
This vanity makes it difficult for them to be satisfied. Because there are people beyond the sky, and there are mountains beyond the mountains.
No matter how happy your marriage is, there is always someone happier than you. Often, all we can compare is quantifiable physical condition.
In other words, these women are prone to divorce because of realistic conditions such as money, wealth, status, etc. It's not that I don't love my marriage, it's that I love myself more when others envy me.
They don't care about their partner's feelings and only selfishly think about whether they can be the focus of others.
02: Poor morality.
Another characteristic of self-centered women who are prone to cheating is that they often think only of themselves and have low moral standards.
The duty of fidelity in marriage is actually more of a moral requirement, which mainly depends on the individual's observance of his or her own moral bottom line.
It is immoral and not worth celebrating for a woman to develop new feelings for another person during her marriage, whether for love or material reasons.
Even love is not a reason to be innocent. Immoral relationships should be nipped in the bud.
A woman who has self-control and high moral requirements for herself naturally knows what to do and what not to do, and is able to make the right choice.
However, women with low morals only think about their own feelings and do not care about public order and morality, which leads them to make poor choices.
03: Self-centered.
Because of self-centeredness, cheating women all have a common trait: self-centeredness.
Many cheating women will find countless evidence of unhappy marriages to justify their cheating behavior.
This evidence is very convincing at first glance. This woman is really dissatisfied with her marriage, so her mistake in looking at the mountain is understandable.
However, all this evidence comes from her own point of view.
Marriage itself is a kind of cooperation that needs to be run-in. If everyone in the marriage is self-centered and makes decisions from their own perspective, then everyone can't leave the marriage with a smile.
This type of woman takes her feelings too seriously and never thinks about putting herself in her partner's shoes or working together to make the marriage more harmonious.
This self-centered thinking is inherently selfish, meaning that others must cooperate with her. When her needs are not met, she becomes dependent on others to meet them.
Marriage is an act between two people. It requires a certain amount of sacrifice and achievement, as well as more tolerance and thoughtfulness. I hope that everyone will take their marriage seriously and protect their happiness.