Foreword: Another year of homecoming tide, as the Spring Festival approaches, the village will reproduce the most lively time of the year, at the same time, a new round of "blind date tide" has also opened, who can find a wife?2024 is coming as scheduled, which should be a new year, but for many rural single guys, they will face challenges, and blind dates have become an important theme. As the saying goes, men should marry women when they are married, but it is not easy for rural boys to get married now, which has also formed a "tide of singles" of tens of millions.
It has become a consensus that it is difficult to get married in rural areas, which should be "benefited" from the reality of China's male and female environment, and is also caused by the result of preference for sons over women, but the prelude to the difficulty of marriage is "difficult to go on a blind date", which can be glimpsed from the phenomenon of "a family with a hundred women" in recent years.
Recently, there have been a lot of news hotspots about rural blind dates, as long as the girls who return to their hometowns have no marriage partners, then the matchmaker will break through the threshold, one after another blind date objects continue to come to the door, and even the phenomenon of boys queuing up at the door of the girl's house to go on a blind date. But it doesn't mean that there is hope for blind dates to line up and get married, and among the many blind date boys, many are destined to be eliminated.
Among them, there are 3 types of people who are the most difficult, and most girls can't look down on them, and they basically have no chance to get married, because why? A village matchmaker made it clear!
The first category is people from poorer families
Poverty is not a fault, but poverty is a sin, no matter which dynasty it seems to be the case, the material basis may not determine whether the marriage is happy or not, but it is an indisputable fact that poor couples mourn everything. This is a real society, everyone yearns for a better life, so the quality of material conditions is the first priority.
At present, the bride price, garage is necessary in the rural blind date market, less than 100,000 or more than hundreds of thousands of bride price, more than 100,000 cars, nearly a million houses are the basic conditions, without these many even blind dates can not be queued, so it is very unrealistic to expect a blind date to enter into marriage with a poor family, after all, the blind date is basically a villager and a neighbor, and you can know the good or bad as soon as you ask, so most of the tens of millions of "singles" in the countryside are mainly poor, and many of them have to fight for a lifetime.
The second category is people who think highly of themselves
Blind date marriage is not only to be the right person, in fact, but also to have the same personality and interests, but in the current blind date market with infinite difficulty coefficient, many boys can't recognize the reality and think very highly of themselves, which is very disgusting.
At the moment when there are more men and fewer women, boys have become a vulnerable group in blind date marriage, and they should face up to this problem, but many of them don't take what they say to the matchmaker seriously, which is also the most headache for the matchmaker, maybe they have been hurt in the relationship, and they may have an unusual appearance, but in the end, they are all high and low, and they have become the remaining group of people, from 20 years old to 30 years old and 40 years old.
The third category is people who are too honest
As the saying goes, a good woman is afraid of pestering her. The more active people are, the more opportunities they have, which is why "scumbags" are more open in society. In the past, honesty represented peace of mind, but now the honest sex is not very good, indicating that people not only do not understand the taste, but also have no mood and are cowardly.
With the arrival of the lunar month, the homecoming army has long been prepared, and countless parents of boys are also urging them to hurry home, catch up with the first batch of "blind date tide", occupy a favorable position, and want to complete the task of the most children. But in rural areas where marriage is difficult, it is not an easy thing, and it will become more and more difficult in the future.
According to the survey, late marriage has spread from urban to rural areas, which means that young women's willingness to marry is further reduced, and the difficulty of blind date is further strengthened, which will eventually lead to a further expansion of the number of older unmarried young men in rural areas. This problem is transmitted to childbirth, which is another decrease in newborns, and the number of people continues to decline, so it is difficult to go on a blind date and get married.
The last question, do you want to go on a blind date when you go home this year?