One day you will understand that time may heal, but it may not.
Time can fade everything and allow the pain to fade slowly. But in fact, it is not time itself that is ours, but our pattern.
Pattern is a person's vision, mind and cognition. It determines the perspective from which a person sees the world, and how they respond to difficult situations. When we encounter setbacks, losses, and hurts along the way of life, it is the pattern that determines how we face and resolve these pains.
Some people encounter difficulties and fall into endless complaints and depression, unable to extricate themselves. Some people, on the other hand, can find the strength to grow with a positive attitude. The difference lies in the different patterns.
People with a big picture will not be limited by the predicament in front of them, they will look at the problem with a broader vision and find a breakthrough point from it. They will see setbacks as a stepping stone to growth, turning pain into inner strength. And this power is our medicine.
Time may be able to take away some superficial scars, but the real ** needs to be fought for by ourselves. Only by improving your own pattern can you truly get out of the predicament from the depths of your heart and meet a better self.
So, when you're feeling miserable and lost, don't just wait for the time. Instead, you should look for the self that will make you stronger and broader inside. Only you can decide your own destiny.
One day you will understand that yours is never about time, but about your pattern.