Leaving everything in the past behind you means releasing the burden of body and mind, letting go of what you already have, so that you can start a new life better. However, we often overlook this.
Most people are prone to dwelling in the past, whether it is the joy of success or the troubles of failure, these memories hover in their minds, putting too much burden on the body and mind, wasting energy and time, and even affecting the development of their careers. Therefore, we need to learn to close the door behind us at the right time and leave everything in the past behind. Only by letting go of the burden of the past can we travel lightly and meet the challenges and opportunities of the future. So, don't let the past shackle your thinking and actions, be brave enough to face the future and open up a broader path in life.
Closing the door behind you doesn't mean you're going to keep your past experiences and lessons behind you. On the contrary, these valuable experiences and lessons are indispensable treasures in your life. You should let them subtly penetrate your bloodstream and transform into an instinct and habit. In this way, you will be able to move towards success more powerfully. Moreover, not grieving what has been lost is undoubtedly an expression of great wisdom. Therefore, we need to learn to cherish the experiences and lessons of the past and let them become our motivation to move forward, not a stumbling block. At the same time, we must also learn to accept the fact of loss and not let grief hinder our progress.
There was once a boy who loved his girlfriend deeply, but his girlfriend's feelings for him were not so deep. She is a curious person who loves to explore new things, always looking for new experiences and thrills. She likes to take her puppy for a walk at night and wears a men's shirt, which she feels can hide her shortcomings. For this boy, he has been trying to make himself better to meet his girlfriend's various needs. However, he gradually discovers that his girlfriend's heart is not in him, she is always erratic and elusive. Despite this, the boy still loves his girlfriend deeply and is willing to give everything for her, but he also understands that such a relationship may not have a happy ending.
Under the boy's deep love, his culinary talent was fully displayed. Every night, he cooks all sorts of delicious dishes for the girls. However, when a girl sees these delicacies, she always expresses some concern: "If I continue to eat like this, I am afraid that I will become a fat person." The boy would comfort the girl with his warm words: "What if you become fat? I'll keep you all the time. Hearing this, the girl's eyes couldn't help but moisten, and she felt the boy's deep love.
But it was the girl who was full of feelings that actually proposed to break up after they had been in love for three years. The boy asked her why, and the girl replied, "Loving too much will make it hard for me to let go, and too much will make me lose myself." When the boy heard this, his heart tingled. He understood the girl's heart, and although he still loved her deeply, he knew that he could no longer take care of her as he had done before. Although painful, he respected the girl's decision and let her go.
After the girl left, the boy began to cook his own food independently. He's no longer limited to just cooking the dishes that the girl used to cook for him. He began to experiment with different cooking methods to make more diverse and delicious dishes. After dinner, he likes to go for a walk on the street, immerse himself in the tranquility of the night, admire the flashing neon lights, and feel the prosperity and loneliness of the city. Although this life is a bit lonely, the boy finds his own joy and freedom in it.
After a relationship, the boy finally wakes up and returns to his normal life trajectory. Now, he has completely let go of the girl and is living a happy and fulfilling life. The emotions of the past brought him joy, but also pain. However, at the moment of the breakup, these pains seemed to turn into seawater and gradually flooded his heart. However, when he learned to let go of the past, the pain dissipated. Starting afresh and embracing a new life is the true path to happiness.
There are many things to deal with in life, and if we are stuck in the past and can't let go, then we will feel very tired and even lose the courage to face the future. In order to maintain the courage to live, we should learn to let go of the past and allow our hearts to be free. In this way, we can have a broader vision and a freer mindset to meet the challenges of the future.
Life is like a drama, each of us is the protagonist of our own life script, but few people can play their roles perfectly and without regrets. Because a life without regrets is an incomplete life. Although it may make us regret to let go of the past, at least we will not be confused anymore, and we will clearly know what kind of life we are pursuing. So, let go of the past, give each other freedom, and make each other's lives better, this is the life we really want. When you're overwhelmed by something, be sure to tell yourself, "Only by letting go can you be truly free!" ”