The sages said: "Born in sorrow, die in peace." ”
The meaning of this sentence is that only by being vigilant at all times and being prepared for danger in times of peace can we survive for a long time; If you are content with pleasure and do not consider the danger, you will only die in your dreams.
For a country, being prepared for danger in times of peace is the way to survive; For a person, planning ahead is also the way to success.
However, the last thing people in this era lack is worry, and they worry about all kinds of things every day. For them, worry is not a good thing, but a nightmare that haunts them.
Therefore, for the people of this age, it is better to be born in sorrow than to die in peace, because anxiety will make life meaningless.
A person's life can be divided into past, present and future in terms of time.
Our present is due to the past, because the past has led to our present. And our present is still trapped by the future, because we have to face tomorrow and have to think about the future.
Although it has been a long time, the haze of the past still stays in our hearts and cannot be dispersed for a long time; Although it is still far away, the worries about the future haunt us all the time, leaving us physically and mentally exhausted.
However, we can only live in the present, and the past and the future exist only in our fantasies. Isn't it silly to make us sad and anxious for the sake of a future that has passed away and is not yet here?Fear because of the unsatisfactory past, and anxiety because of the confusion of the future. In this way, we don't have to wait for the future, our present will surely become the next unsatisfactory past.
Therefore, instead of worrying about the past and the future that cannot be touched, it is better to live the present and enjoy the present.
There are many benefits to enjoying the moment. First of all, living in the present allows us to experience life better, and if we always focus on the past or the future, we may miss many of life's beautiful moments.
Second, enjoying the present moment can help us reduce stress, and when we focus all on the current activity, our brain stops thinking about things that might make us feel anxious.
In addition, enjoying the moment can also help us be more efficient. When we put our heart and soul into the task at hand, we can complete the task faster and with a higher quality of completion.
What's more, enjoying the moment also helps to improve one's well-being. Studies have found that people who are able to devote themselves to their current activities are generally happier than those who are constantly distracted.
Isn't it true that people live to pursue happiness? If there is happiness to enjoy in front of you, why sacrifice your happiness to invest in an uncertain future?
Of course, it is also necessary to invest in the future, after all, we have tomorrow. It is not advisable to have wine today and get drunk today without thinking about tomorrow's attitude towards life.
I agree with the idea that it is far worse to live without money than to have money and not to enjoy it. For the latter, though pathetic, at least does not have to suffer, while the former needs to suffer alive.Suppose you are a young person who enjoys the moment at all costs and lives a life of joy and indulgence all day long. If you're in your thirties or forties, that's fine, because then you don't have to suffer a midlife crisis.
But if you're lucky enough, or if you're not lucky enough, and live to be fifty or sixty years old. By that time, due to the indulgence of the first half of your life, you now have no money and no healthy body. At this point, you will accept the price of the indulgence of the first half of your life and live a very miserable life.
Therefore, in addition to enjoying the present, we must also invest in our own future, and we cannot enjoy the present at the expense of the future. Only by enjoying the present moment in moderation and enjoying the present moment in a planned way can the happy time last for a long time.
Romain Rolland said: "There is only one true heroism in the world, and that is to love life after recognizing the truth of life." ”This is an extremely complex and angry era, and all kinds of troubles plague everyone without exception. This makes many people subconsciously think that life is a garbage game and that life is not worth it.
But if you think about it carefully, you will find that as long as you don't participate in this garbage game, keep your inner peace alone, and enjoy your own little happiness, then no matter how unbearable the world is, what does it matter to you?
People don't have to think too much about things, and don't be too attached to the big environment, they just need to stick to their own small world, enjoy the present, and at the same time invest in the future in a small way.
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