Girls hanging you? Don't be stupid, let's go!
Some people say that the relationship between men and women is like playing a zero-sum game, you feel like you are about to win, and you are one step closer to the girl you like, but what you may not know is that she is actually just playing with you, so if you find that the girl shows the following three points, then leave her as soon as possible, and promise Sister Xuan's words, this is really not a good sign.
In the relationship between men and women, many boys show a strong sense of "I want to be with you" as soon as they come up, just like running naked, so that people can see at a glance that you like it.
However, the vanity of girls can affect their attitudes. When you show that you like her, the girl will hang herself up and feel that she doesn't need to be too active because she is liked, so she won't take the initiative to send you messages.
Even if I reply to you, it will take a long time. So, even if you catch her, it's not really chasing, it's licking. Therefore, it is advisable not to give up the pursuit, but also to take care to maintain one's dignity and worth.
Manifestation. Second, sometimes, we may receive a "good person card", just like when Sister Xuan was in school before. When we receive this card, we may be a little reluctant to give up, because while the girl issues this card, it also leaves us room to feel that there is still a chance in our hearts.
Maybe the girl will say, "You are really good, and you will be very happy to be your girlfriend, but at the moment I still want to focus on my studies or work." For the time being, I don't have any plans to talk to anyone. ”
We may feel that the girl didn't explicitly say that she didn't like us, and she praised us, so we want to hold on a little longer. However, we must be soberly aware that what a girl really means: "Heh, you are so ordinary, and you still want to be my boyfriend, but for the sake of you being so flattering to me, it's a pity to lose you, so I'll leave you some illusions and reluctantly put you in my pond." ”
Students, do you understand now?
Have you ever met someone who will only take and never give? Do you choose to ignore her selfishness and non-dedication because you like her? Have you ever helped her and helped her through a difficult time, but did not get her gratitude and reward?
If your answer is yes, then you may have met someone who only takes and doesn't give. Sister Xuan wants to tell you that love is mutual, and long-term unbalanced relationships can lead to conflicts.
And, if a person always asks you to give and doesn't give anything in return on your own, then you may need to reconsider the relationship. Listen to Sister Xuan's words, give up early, and be relieved early.