What is the difference between men and women?
In my eyes, his attitude has always been the same: in the general direction, he is willing to give you all his time, resources and money (if any), and his patience and enthusiasm are unreserved.
I remember when we first met, we were very busy, but as a beginner, he taught me how to write essays with practical actions, and his time and skills were selflessly passed on to me, giving me room for improvement.
In the small details, he always takes the initiative to help you, cares about your preferences, pays attention to your three meals a day, shares what he sees and learns, and even wants to be your father.
In the long-term planning, he will work with you to make future plans, find your common interests, and patiently guide you to make progress. His actions and words are full of love and support for you, and his presence is your reliance and motivation.
When you and I have a conflict of interest, I am willing to compromise. This is not only a sign of tolerance and kindness to you, but also because of the deep love for you. The best way to solve the problem is for us to be honest about the problem and distribute the loss of benefits fairly.
Other than that, I try my best to be self-disciplined and not to cheat physically or mentally. We all have imperfections, but that doesn't stop us from respecting and understanding each other.
Here's what I know about women's true feelings (based on my experience and observations, different women may behave differently). I really feel sorry for you, and I feel sorry for your dedication and experience.
When I see your hard work, my heart is filled with sympathy. I know that codewords are hard and write 1 every day80,000 words is a daunting task. I will also feel sorry for your childhood, youth, experiences, successes and failures.
I will do everything I can to support you and help you through this.
I was deeply attracted by the ability of my big guy to find problems and solve them in a way that I admired. Even though he wasn't perfect, I firmly believed that he could do anything well, including his flaws, and I would take all of him sensibly.
In my eyes, he is the kind of person who can find a way to survive and thrive even in a deserted place. I like the way he smokes, turns on the hood, wields a spatula to cook, he's like an uncle, and he asks me what I want to eat, and although his answer is always "no", I still admire him very much.
I adore and appreciate him from the bottom of my heart.
When you meet someone who truly loves you, you will find that your patience has become so much. You will patiently communicate with him and listen patiently to his needs, just as our parents teach us to eat, talk, and walk, patiently and lovingly.
On the other hand, if your partner is impatient with you, it may be a decline in his affection for you. My big guy is experienced and emotionally stable, but I'm an emotional person.
But in the face of him, I am always full of patience, I will give him a massage when he is tired, help him choose clothes, watch him play the game of Genting (although I don't understand, once I volunteered to help him, and even took the phone upside down, and he fell on the sofa laughing), helped him make tea, and cleaned up his littered socks. If it were someone else, I might not have such patience at all, but the thought of him makes me happy and patient.
Although I often urged him to say, "You hurry up and write, I want to lie down and win", deep down, my greatest wish is to work with him. We are all ordinary people, not born rich.
He's getting better and better every day, and I have the same goal. This kind of effort is not to sacrifice ourselves to achieve him, but to make progress together and make money together.
It's all from my own point of view. Everyone's opinions and preferences are different, there may be some girls who love you and want to have a baby with you, and some who want to cook for you every day ......It doesn't matter.
Most importantly, we all have the ability to discover and express love, to love ourselves and each other. In my opinion, love is not vigorous, but two people eat many meals together, sleep peacefully and comfortably, and are not afraid of any wind and rain outside.
I hope that if there is love in the next life, you can all meet in front of the screen sooner and don't have to take so many detours.