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In social interactions, sometimes we meet people who are less attentive and may lack some social experience and interpersonal skills. In order to help these people better adapt to society and avoid unnecessary troubles, I offer them the following 10 suggestions.
1. Don't casually reveal your family background
Family background is an individual's privacy, and revealing too much may cause unwanted attention and trouble. Especially in the workplace and social situations, revealing one's family background too much can lead to dependency, affecting personal growth and independence. Therefore, people with few eyes should learn to protect their privacy and not disclose their family background casually.
2. Secret things, God knows, the earth knows, you know
There are always some secrets in life that cannot be made public, and these secrets may involve personal emotions, family conflicts, work secrets, etc. Keeping a secret is an important responsibility for those with few eyes. They should understand that the more they know, the greater the responsibility. Only by keeping it strictly confidential can you win the trust and respect of others.
3. No one can say how to make money
In business and workplace competition, the way to make money is often the core competitiveness. People with few eyes should understand that easily revealing the method of making money to others may lead to damage to their own interests. Therefore, they should learn to protect their trade secrets and not easily disclose the way to make money.
Fourth, the first time you are touched to the bottom line, you must say it
The bottom line is the embodiment of the dignity and values of the individual. When people with few eyes first feel that their bottom line has been touched, they should be brave enough to stand up and express their dissatisfaction and rejection. Doing so not only protects your own rights and interests, but also allows others to understand your bottom line and avoid further violations.
5. Don't tell others about your past experiences
Past experiences are traces of personal growth, but not all experiences are suitable for sharing with others. For people with few eyes, overexposing one's past can lead to unnecessary misunderstandings and troubles. Therefore, they should learn to sift through their experiences and avoid revealing too much information in inappropriate situations.
Sixth, if a friend helps to buy something, you should immediately transfer money to others
In interpersonal interactions, helping each other is a virtue. However, when a person with a small heart accepts a friend's help, they should return the favor as soon as possible. Especially in the case of a friend helping to buy something, timely transfer is not only a respect for the fruits of the friend's labor, but also an important part of maintaining the relationship between the two parties.
Seven, don't joke with ***, and don't go to the table with your mother-in-law
Family relationships are complex social relationships that need to be handled with care. People with little eyes should pay special attention to their words and deeds when interacting with family members to avoid causing unnecessary misunderstandings and conflicts. Especially when interacting with sensitive people such as *** and mother-in-law, you should be more polite and respectful.
8. After 2 p.m. and 9 p.m., don't go to the restaurant to eat
Choosing the right time to eat is very important for interpersonal communication. After 2 p.m. and 9 p.m., many restaurants may be ready to close or the quality of service will deteriorate. People with few eyes should avoid going to restaurants to eat during these times, so as not to affect the dining experience and mood due to the poor environment.
9. The first glass of wine is only for those who maximize their own interests
Toasting is a common etiquette in social situations. However, for people with few eyes, they should be clear about their social purpose and use their limited resources for the most valuable people. The first glass of wine is only to those who can bring the most benefit to them, so that they can build networks and expand their resources more efficiently.
10. Girls must be wary of people who are suddenly good to you, especially the older ones of the opposite sex
In social interactions, girls should be especially wary of those who suddenly treat them well, especially older people of the opposite sex. These people may have ulterior motives and may cause harm to girls. Therefore, girls should learn to protect themselves and not easily trust the good intentions of strangers to avoid getting into danger.
In short, people with few eyes need to be more cautious and vigilant in social interactions. By following the above 10 tips, they can better protect their rights and dignity and avoid unnecessary troubles and losses. At the same time, they can gradually improve their social skills and interpersonal skills, and better integrate into the social family.