"Snail House" is a deeply rooted TV series, and I have new insights every time. In repeated tastes, from the marriage between Mrs. Song and Guo Haiping, I came to a conclusion: Women must not marry low. You have shared the hardships with him, but he may not be able to share the joys with you.
Song Siming, who was once just a poor boy with a dream, carried the expectations of the whole family, and tried to gain a firm foothold in the bustling Jiangzhou City. And Jiang Miaomiao is a girl born in a wealthy family and pampered by her parents. Her parents only wanted her to find true happiness and never thought of exchanging her marriage for any material benefits. Otherwise, how could they agree to her marriage to Song Siming? When he was young, Song Siming had neither rich wealth nor sufficient time, but he fell in love with Jiang Miao and lived a very happy life. How did they get through those difficult years? Let me reveal the secret for you.
Even if he had an affair later, Song Siming still suggested that his wife and daughter go back to his grandmother's house on weekends. This shows that he has become accustomed to the comfortable life of his parents-in-law. And when Jiang Miaomiao communicated with Song Siming, we learned that Jiang Miaomiao played a vital role in the reason why Song Siming embarked on the road of breaking the law. The fact that a wife can have such a great influence on her husband's work and future is enough to prove that her place in her husband's heart is irreplaceable. Song Siming and Jiang Miaomiao, they trusted each other, supported each other, and spent the most difficult period in their lives together. However, when Song Siming felt that the problems that could be solved with money were no longer a problem, he began to be dissatisfied with the status quo. Seaweed's intrusion into his life seemed accidental, but Song Siming's betrayal was inevitable for Jiang Miaomiao.
A low-married woman has become accustomed to giving everything for her family after years of tempering. And those men who once suffered and later rose to prominence, after a long period of repression, are full of curiosity and desire to conquer the outside world. Jiang Miaomiao has spent many years in a peaceful life, and she has long lost her sense of crisis. She dedicates herself wholeheartedly to her daughter and family, taking care of her finances and managing the household. Song Siming is burdened with a heavy past, and now he is in the midst of all kinds of **, which makes him physically and mentally exhausted. Today, the common goals of husband and wife have long been blurred, and the relationship is no longer as close as it used to be. The relationship between husband and wife is actually like a contract of mutual exchange and cooperation, and the premise of maintaining this relationship is a common goal.
Many couples are able to work together to improve their lives during times of shared suffering. However, once life is comfortable and there is no clear goal, the couple's ideas often diverge, leading to a gradual drift of the relationship. This is why many couples can only share sorrows and sorrows. Haiping once firmly said that she and Su Chun would never give up in the midst of difficulties, but she did not dare to make conclusions about the future days. In life, some people only take, but do not know how to give, they are often happier than those who know how to give.
When I first saw the character of Su Chun, many people might think that he was loyal and honest, but after careful observation, they will find that his selfishness is deep in the bone marrow, like a small burr on a fish, which cannot be eliminated at all. His mother-in-law had been taking care of their daughter, and he didn't say anything about it. When he couldn't borrow money to buy a house, he went to borrow from a loan shark. In the end, Seaweed is forced to "sell herself" to pay off her debts, but Su Chun accepts it all.
Su Chun accused Song Siming of being unreliable, but how could he be reliable? Song Siming once rescued Su Chun from prison, and Su Chun's online bookstore was able to open thanks to Song Siming's help. Although Su Chun also wanted to stop what Seaweed was doing, he swallowed it back every time the words came to his mouth, just in exchange for Haiping's quietness. The couple had too much vested interest in this abnormal relationship.
In the whole play, Su Chun has never paid anything for the family, and the ending seems to be happy, but it is full of irony. And although Song Siming is also enjoying his success, he at least does not have no bottom line like Su Chun. When he is helpless, he will excessively exploit his mother's family.
Guo Haiping loves Guo Haizao deeply and cares about her even more than her mother. However, when she encounters difficulties in her life, she accepts and gets used to Seaweed's unexplained help. This behavior undoubtedly causes more harm to the seaweed. In front of her mother, Guo Haiping always explained her negligence in seaweed with a simple sentence of "busy with her livelihood". She may not realize it, or she may be unwilling to admit it, it is her constant request for her family that makes Seaweed unconsciously approach Song Siming. This profoundly reveals that even family affection can change because of the relationship of interests. After having her daughter Ran Ran, Guo Haiping's mind was all about the plan to bring her to Shanghai, and she had no time to take into account the feelings of seaweed. Her eagerness to save Su Chun from prison also makes her ignore the plight of Seaweed. In the process, seaweed has been relied on by her.
At the same time, Mrs. Song also shared her past. When it was the most difficult time for husband and wife, it was Jiang Miaomiao who took the child back to her parents' house to eat, and used her mother as a nanny to get through. Having a mother's family to rely on is a woman's happiness. But because of her helplessness in marriage, she blindly squeezes the interests of her mother's family and takes it for granted, which is the sorrow of a woman. Filial piety in marriage is actually closely related to the economic foundation. Compared with Guo Haiping, Jiang Miaomiao can be called a filial daughter-in-law. She not only manages the life of her in-laws, but also takes care of her brother-in-law's family. And Guo Haiping only knew how to urge Su Chun to ask his family for money to buy a house.
Domino put forward a point of view: as long as conditions permit, what Mrs. Song can do, Guo Haiping can also do. But the premise is that your small family has no worries about food and clothing. In fact, filial piety in marriage is related to the essence of human beings, and it is also related to the economic foundation. When daughters need to be raised by their mothers, how can they have the mood and ability to be filial to their in-laws? Many times, they give less because they have too little.
There are so many challenges and problems faced by low-married women. It's not just an emotional trade-off, it's a deep reflection on life. While pursuing happiness, how to protect her own value and dignity is a problem that every low-married woman needs to face. Love, it is a dance of two people, light and harmonious. Marriage, on the other hand, is a symphony of two families, deep and complex. This repeated phrase is like a silent wake-up call that reminds us of the true meaning of life. As the initial passion faded, a feeling of helplessness came over like the tide of the night.
For those women who choose to marry low, their lives may be full of hardships. The incompetence of the husband is like walking in a barren land, and every step is heavy and difficult. The weight of the whole family could overwhelm her, and the weight of the pressure was almost suffocating. And when the husband is finally developed, the ** of those prosperous worlds is like a cunning fox, which can easily take him away from him. The promise and dependence that once seemed so fragile in front of **.
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This is the sorrow of a low-married woman, and it is also the ruthlessness of life. However, despite this, love and marriage are still eternal topics for human beings, and we can never avoid them. Only when we truly understand and accept these truths can we dance better on the stage of life.