Title: Low-key luxury! Secretly tell you that the cemetery in the countryside is asking for 250,000!
In our local area, about five years after the choice of burial, the ashes are dug up and a new cemetery is found for burial
My mother passed away seven years ago, and my brother has been helping me find someone to take care of my mother's grave all these years.
My brother's wife's father knew a bit about Feng Shui and he had been looking around for years, and eventually he had his eye on a cemetery that happened to be in the middle of someone else's orchard.
This land was originally a wasteland that no one cared about, and Lao Wang cultivated the fruit tree farm alone, and some people buried their deceased relatives here many years ago, but these old kings surrounded it and installed a gate, and since then no one else can be buried in this wasteland.
Helplessly, some feng shui gentlemen took a fancy to this land, and people came to inquire one after another, so Lao Wang began to charge.
The funeral can be carried out, and Lao Wang's fees range from 5,000 to 7,000 yuan, and more and more people consult, and the cemetery has risen to about 30,000 yuan.
Since my brother and Lao Wang know each other, he only needs to pay 250,000 yuan.
My brother's father-in-law persuaded him to buy this cemetery, because some people from Nanning would spend 70,000 or 80,000 yuan to buy a cemetery, and he thought it was very good.
If my brother doesn't want it, he wants it himself, and he says he will be buried here when he dies.
In short, my brother's father-in-law very much wanted my brother to buy this cemetery for his mother's burial in the future.
I really didn't expect the cemetery in the countryside to be so high.
My family has dozens of acres of longan land, and some people also choose to be buried in the longan field, but the area they like is located in other people's wasteland, so they have to spend money to buy it.
Now that I am in debt and raising two children on my own, I said to my brother, "You can bargain with him again and see if he can lower it." ”
My brother said, "It's basically this now." ”
I said, "I'm in financial difficulties right now, and if you want to buy it, I can't share the cost with you, so I can only come up with 5,000 yuan." ”
My brother said, "It's okay, I'm ready for this money." ”
It took 2The cemetery bought for 50,000 yuan cannot be casually entered to worship in the future, and if you want to go to worship, you can only make an appointment in advance
*I can barely accept it, but what makes it difficult for me to accept is that I can't go to the cemetery as much as I want, and I have to make an appointment to go in.
Because Lao Wang installed a gate there and locked it, if you want to go to worship, you have to make an appointment in advance.
My brother said that Lao Wang will open the gate every year on March 3 and during the Qingming Festival, and there is no need to make an appointment to sweep the tomb at that time.
But if you want to see it, you have to make a reservation.
In fact, I hardly go to the cemetery in normal times, and only Qingming will go to the cemetery.
I asked him to think again.
This old king is too much, so he encloses a piece of land and can sell it, isn't this land also the state? My brother said that now that he has reclaimed the land and installed the gate, it will be his.
If you don't give him money, you can't bury your relatives without his consent.
Moreover, he has been buried in dozens of cemeteries, which means that he has made a lot of money.
Alas, I don't have a problem with the charge, but in the countryside, charging tens of thousands of yuan for a cemetery, I still think it's a bit expensive, I don't know if Lao Wang will feel at ease when he receives the money.
I told my brother that it was only because we were interested in the land that we were asked to pay so much.
If no one is interested in his land in the future, then he will not be able to sell it, so why will he not sell it to us at a lower price? My brother said that the land is limited, and so is the land available for burial.
And as the elderly grow old and the population increases, there will definitely be people who will need it at that time.
Now many of our elderly people there have started to buy cemeteries for themselves.
It's already very difficult to be alive, so don't cause trouble to your descendants when you die
As a divorced woman, even if I die in the future, it is impossible for me to be buried in my mother's home.
In rural areas, neither married nor unmarried women can be buried in their parents' homes.
I decided not to buy a cemetery in the city in the future, because the cemetery in the city is higher** and it is difficult to predict how much it will rise in the future.
In contrast, if I have money to buy a cemetery, I would rather use it to buy a house so that my children can live more spacious and comfortable.
If I pass away, I will put the ashes directly into a plastic bag and sprinkle them on rivers, lakes and seas, or sprinkle them under big trees to make fertilizer.
In any case, I am determined not to buy a cemetery.