Rural pathological phenomenon Those who go out to work and return to their hometowns at the end of the year, rich and poor need to do superficial articles!
Farmers who go out to work hard return to their hometowns at the end of each year to show off their achievements and wealth. Whether they are rich or poor, they will do all kinds of superficial articles to show the villagers that they have no worries about food and clothing. Some people buy a second-hand car to show off in their hometown, and some people rent a luxury car to go into the city on Chinese New Year's Eve to save face. This phenomenon arouses people's curiosity and reflection, why is it so obsessed with giving people illusions?
Is there a deeper psychological motivation behind this? This phenomenon can be better understood through the example of the cousin. When his cousin returned to his hometown in a BMW and wearing a name brand, the villagers were full of curiosity about his achievements. However, when the truth is revealed, people begin to wonder why some people would rather weave a fictional success than face reality.
Return to the psychological factors behind the rural phenomenon.
1.Satisfy vanity.
For some, flaunting their wealth and success when they return home for the New Year is a way to satisfy their vanity. They hope to earn the respect and admiration of others by flaunting their material possessions. Whether it's showing off their vehicles, luxurious home décor or wearing designer clothes, they're here to prove their success in working outside the home and assert their social status. Even if the family is not wealthy, some people will spend all their money to take out loans to build houses, rent luxury cars, and seek excessive wealth abroad, regardless of their financial ability. This excessive pursuit of vanity has led people to reflect on whether it is really worth pursuing such a superficial economy.
2.Distorting societal attitudes.
The phenomenon of returning home may be a product of social attitudes. In today's society, people believe that only by flaunting material wealth can one gain the recognition and admiration of others. This notion has led some rural people to choose to drive luxury cars when they return home for the Chinese New Year to show off their success and status. This distorted view of society has led people to place more emphasis on external affluence and vanity than on real life. However, shouldn't true happiness and success be based on real effort and concrete actions?
Re-examine the phenomenon of a return to the rural world.
1.Whether face is worth pursuing.
Is it really worth the fictitious glitz of rural people when they return to their hometowns? Through the example of my cousin, we can clearly see that this fictitious wealth and success is only a superficial economy, which is seriously inconsistent with the real state of the individual. This pursuit of superficial glamour goes far beyond actual needs, and can only bring people a temporary sense of vanity, but cannot bring people a real sense of satisfaction and accomplishment. Therefore, we should revisit this quest and consider whether true happiness and success should be based on fiction and appearance.
2.Seek inner self-esteem.
In the face of the phenomenon of migrant workers returning to their hometowns, shouldn't we reflect on the meaning of finding self-worth? True happiness and success are not justified by imaginary materialism, but by the pursuit of inner growth and development. We should pay more attention to real life and strive to discover our own potential and value, rather than chasing vanity in order to satisfy social ideas. Only by looking at your life authentically can you find true happiness and fulfillment.
3) Find the true meaning of life.
Behind the phenomenon of returning to the countryside is a mentality of chasing appearances, and people seem to gradually forget the essence of real life. The excessive pursuit of external prosperity and vanity can only bring short-term satisfaction, while true happiness and fulfillment can only be obtained through real hard work and dedication. Therefore, we should re-examine the phenomenon of returning to the countryside, reflect on the direction and positioning of personal values, and pay more attention to the essence of real life.
Summary. The phenomenon of returning home has exposed the pursuit of vanity and the distortion of social attitudes among some people. Analyzing my cousin's case, we can see that this pursuit is only a fragile and short-lived gratification that does not lead to true happiness and success. Therefore, we should reflect on the way we pursue happiness and success, focus on the true meaning of life, and find inner self-esteem to achieve true fulfillment and fulfillment.