Feng Dan's marriage came to an end because of her infidelity. When Chen Li asked Feng Dan who he was having an affair with, Feng Dan pointed at him with tears: "It's you!" And Chen Li comforted her with tenderness: "You still have me!" In this absurd situation, Chen Li completely ignored the harm caused to his wife Hou Yuanyuan by the incident, and did not worry about the impact on his life if the police talked to him.
His first reaction was jaw-dropping: how could Han Jinjin treat Feng Dan like this, he decided to hire a lawyer for Feng Dan, even if the whole world left Feng Dan, he would always be by her side. This deep affection is really touching.
However, the reality is always cruel. What wife can tolerate her husband being so affectionate towards another woman? This kind of cover-up and favoritism is really distressing. Feng Dan chose to commit suicide, but the reason was not Han Jinjin's domestic violence, but because Han Jinjin left her. This absurd situation can't help but make people think: Why did Han Jinjin beat Feng Dan so much, but Feng Dan was always unwilling to call the police? It turned out that she didn't want Han Jinjin to be punished by the law.
There is another problem here: Feng Dan was beaten all over her body by Han Jinjin, but she did not hate Han Jinjin, but felt that he was her savior. She thinks that everything is her fault, and if she can have a child for Han Jinjin, everything will be fine. For the fact of being subjected to domestic violence, she never thought of severely punishing **. She shielded Han Jinjin and cherished him. It's heart-wrenching.
This story makes us reflect deeply on the fact that Fontaine doesn't really want to get rid of domestic violence, she just looks for a short haven and comfort. She never thought of calling the police or seeking legal assistance for domestic violence, she just wanted to find a "good" man to help her.
This can't help but remind me of the female character in "Blood Romance", who would rather seek help from Ning Wei than call the police after suffering domestic violence. For women who are victims of domestic violence, they may be reluctant to report to the police for a variety of reasons and choose to seek other ways to shelter. However, we must recognise that seeking asylum is not the fundamental solution to domestic violence, and we need to establish better laws and relief mechanisms to protect these vulnerable groups.
At the same time, it is also important to raise public awareness and attention to domestic violence. Only by working together as a whole can we truly eradicate domestic violence and enable everyone to enjoy the right to live in equality and dignity. In the context of Feng Dan's domestic violence, Chen Li seems to be the only one in the know. However, in the company, Han Jinjin's violence against Feng Dan is well known, why can only Chen Li observe it? Did the people around Fontaine turn a blind eye to this?
In fact, why did Feng Dan "choose" Chen Li? This is a question worth pondering. As He Jiaru said, Feng Dan is not just any man who will choose. So, what was the reason why Feng Dan chose Chen Li?
First of all, Feng Dan learned that Chen Li and Hou Yuanyuan had a tense relationship between husband and wife. Chen Li lied to his wife Hou Yuanyuan in front of Feng Dan many times, as long as he was with Feng Dan, no matter if Hou Yuanyuan gave him **, he would deceive Hou Yuanyuan in front of Feng Dan.
Secondly, Chen Li was very responsive to Feng Dan. Even if it is non-working hours, as long as Feng Dan hits **, Chen Li will rush there immediately. This even made Ye Yifan feel that Chen Li's relationship with Feng Dan was a little unusual. Feng Dan was keenly aware of these two points, and she looked at Chen Li with pitiful eyes, stimulating his desire to protect.
In another domestic violence incident, Feng Dan did not seek help from Chen Li. From this point of view, Feng Dan is more measured than Chen Li. However, Chen Li left his job, ignored his wife and daughter, and did not even seek help from the police, but just looked for Feng Dan everywhere. After finding Feng Dan, he did not shy away from having a lot of physical contact with her, which was not just an ordinary help, but contained deep love and pity for her.
In this process, Ye Yifan once suggested that Hou Yuanyuan consider Chen Li's ideas. But Chen Li refused. Then there was a dramatic scene: although Feng Dan pushed Chen Li away many times, Chen Li still resolutely guarded her, even ignoring his own daughter.
There is another noteworthy point here: at Chen Li's insistence, even Feng Dan began to feel that he had feelings for her that transcended ordinary relationships. This kind of behavior of not being close to each other, having no desires, leaving family and work, and being good to her wholeheartedly, makes the relationship between the two very delicate. Chen Li takes care of Feng Dan meticulously, from cooking delicious food to buying pajamas, and even taking a bath for her. When Feng Dan said the word "you", the deep affection was overflowing. She is convinced that Chen Li has a special affection for her, the kind of love between men and women.
We can't help but ask, what happened to Chen Li? Did he realize that he cared more about Fontaine than he should be? He knew very well in his heart that because of this understanding, he lied to Hou Yuanyuan many times. However, why did he still entangle himself with Feng Dan even though he knew that his actions had crossed the line?
The answer lies in his desire for Fontaine. He was tired of the strength of his wife at home, and Fontaine's beauty and weakness made him comfortable. Therefore, despite Hou Yuanyuan's opposition, and despite Ye Yifan's repeated admonitions, he still couldn't resist Feng Dan's attraction. He didn't think about divorcing Hou Yuanyuan, he just wanted to find a weak woman to pamper him and satisfy his desire to protect and **.
On the morning when Hou Yuanyuan left home, her face was full of resentment, and people couldn't help but ask, is the sex life between Chen Li and Hou Yuanyuan really harmonious? Or has Chen Li actually rejected his wife? Did Chen Li really not know that there was another more suitable way to help Feng Dan? For example, enlisting help from the police or other suitable women. But why did he have to intervene himself? Especially the sentence "You still have me", does he really not understand the meaning of this sentence? He actually knew.
But he was moved by Feng Dan, couldn't control himself, and was even willing to abandon his wife and daughter for this. As for Han Jinjin, his imprisonment is actually inevitable. And is Feng Dan really as innocent as the White Lotus in this entanglement?
There are many ways for a woman to really want to distance herself from a married man. Everything Feng Dan did to Chen Li was just a trick to get away with it. She has shown her weakness many times, saying that she does not want to destroy other people's marriages, but her behavior is constantly destroying. seems innocent, but in fact it is quite scheming and extremely hypocritical. She has been hurt by other men, lost a child, and even contemplated suicide. Han Jinjin saved her and became her salvation.
Now, she was let down by Han Jinjin again, lost her fertility, and had suicidal thoughts again. And Chen Li once again became her salvation. But is her deep affection for Chen Li really as pure and immaculate as she said? Things get difficult without men involved, but what about the women behind these men? Do they also play an important role? Hou Yuanyuan's story tells us that sometimes a person is unable to save himself in a great predicament.
And Feng Dan's approach is undoubtedly very selfish, so that Chen Li cannot abandon his family responsibilities. However, we also can't ignore Fontaine's pain and helplessness. In family and love, everyone is playing a different role, sometimes the strong, sometimes the weak, but no matter what, we need to respect each other's feelings and responsibilities.