When we face the ups and downs of life and encounter all kinds of uncontrollable difficulties, we often think, why me? Why am I going to endure this.
Zhou Guoping's words give us the answer.
Zhou Guoping said: "Man cannot control his own fate, but he can control his attitude towards fate and calmly bear the inevitable encounters that fall on his head." ”
In my past life, I have encountered many failures and tribulations.
Whenever this happens, I have complained, blamed others, and even shied away from my own responsibilities.
But as time goes by, and as I gain experience, I gradually understand that complaining and blaming will not solve the problem, but will only make yourself more miserable.
So I began to learn to accept the fact that I was not in control of everything, and gradually learned to think calmly and actively look for solutions, instead of blindly complaining.
We are all specks of dust in the universe and cannot ** or control the direction of the future. It's like a sudden rainstorm that we can't stop from coming, but we can choose how to respond.
Do you stand in the rain and complain, or do you look for a place to shelter from the rain and wait for the rain to clear?
Although we cannot control the circumstances of our fate, we can choose our own attitude.
When faced with a difficult situation, we can choose to complain negatively or choose to respond positively. When we choose to face it positively, the dilemma often becomes less scary.
For example, when we face challenges at work, if we choose a positive attitude, then the challenge may turn into an opportunity for us to grow and improve.
Sometimes, we would look out over the magnificent scenery from the top of the mountain; Sometimes, we feel the calm and tranquility in the valley; Sometimes, we get lost in the desert. But no matter what attitude we have to choose to face it, we can face it at any time. Do you complain about the steepness of the mountaintops, the loneliness of the valleys, and the immensity of the desert, or do you appreciate the magnificence of the summits, the depths of the valleys, and the vastness of the desert?
Many encounters in life are unavoidable, such as birth, old age, sickness and death, love and hatred.
The only thing we can do about these inevitable encounters is to accept them calmly.
Every dilemma and setback is an opportunity to awaken.
When we are able to accept and face these encounters calmly, we can awaken.
Life is like a mirror, if you smile at it, it will smile at you; You cry at it, and it will cry at you.
If we choose to face life's challenges and difficulties positively, then no matter how fate changes, we can find our own sunshine and hope.
Zhou Guoping said: "The meaning of life is not the pursuit of happiness, but the pursuit of something worth pursuing." ”
Please cherish every moment, every experience, every ordeal. Because every experience shapes our inner world and enriches our life experience. Let's face the challenges and difficulties in life with a brave heart! Believe me! When you smile in the face of the injustice of fate; When you are comfortable accepting the frustration of failure; When you are brave enough to pursue your dreams; You'll find yourself stronger than you ever thought you would! You will find that your life path becomes broader!
Looking back on our lives, it is not difficult for us to find that there are so many things that we cannot control. But fortunately, we can control our attitude towards fate.
People who really have a big pattern are frank and open-minded, so that they do not complain about things, do not blame others when they are frustrated, and do not avoid mistakes.