In the teaching ranks, the phenomenon of early baldness and whiteness of male teachers has become more and more serious, and the main reason is that they worry too much and use their brains too much. Therefore, in the new year, I wish readers and friends all the best, not a single hair is white, not a lot!
It's really not easy to think about not spending your hair, just looking at the past 2023, a lot of troubles are really brain-wrenching and disturbing. I finally came out of the epidemic, and the teaching work was finally able to carry out normally, but it is really not a simple thing to make students feel good. In the face of the miserable results of students, which teacher is not scratching his ears and cheeks, thinking hard and meditating, in order to improve the quality of teaching is really hard. It's a hair-wrenching thing.
One more thing, I don't know if you have noticed? In recent years, the number of favors on red and white ceremonies has been greatly reduced. Why? One is that the conditions do not allow, and the other is that everyone does it unanimously, but it ends up quiet. When I got married to the teacher in the office, I no longer sent invitations, but simply sent a few candy and a bag of melon seeds and peanuts, and all I got back was a "thank you". I always feel that this is a good thing, this is a good thing to save the hair of the person concerned. I think when I got married, I had a lot of trouble arranging seats for my colleagues.
Even for a major event like marriage, the favor between colleagues can be avoided, and other situations are much simpler. In some years, when the trend of eating and drinking was popular, maintaining interpersonal relationships was much more complicated. In order to maintain a normal colleague relationship, I dare not make up the number when it comes to eating wine and dinner. Today you invite me, tomorrow I invite you, wasting a lot of energy and money in the coming and going. Even if you don't like each other, you have to be tough to socialize, and you have to say a lot of duplicity when you meet, which is really uncomfortable. You can also pretend that the relationship is very good, and beg you to make you pay. Friendship and human affection need to be comprehensive, and no one wants to be an unkind person. Some people also like to slap their swollen faces and become fat, afraid that they will be looked down upon, so they borrow money to run wine, and wait for the festivities to recede, leaving their faces full of melancholy.
In many cases, ordinary teachers are just foils, or even disadvantaged, but the system forces you to participate in a "must attend" way. Going to a meeting is nothing more than listening to other people's merits, and then chasing you to agree. People with a good mentality don't care if they sign their names in the middle of the laughter; People with a bad mentality always feel that they are being treated as monkeys, and they can't find vent their anger in their stomachs, so they can only rush to the top of their heads, and the last thing to suffer is their own hair. Especially at the commendation meeting, looking at the crowd performing on stage, you have to cooperate with the performance offstage, and it must be false to say that you are not uncomfortable. has been playing a supporting role for others for many years, and you are still full of green hair, so you have a prime minister's belly.
is also a marginal person in the school, why should he be a foil in a meeting? It's right to huddle together for warmth, and it's right to be afraid of being abandoned, but you shouldn't "lose enough to make up for it". Others can't see that you are suffering, but they still want to use you, use you to make up numbers, use you to vote, but then say bad things about you, can you still not lose your hair at this time? No one really deals with a person who is useless, and if it exists, it is to be reused. They are friends at the party, friends when they need you, but you are really in trouble, and they are the ones who fall into the ground. In the interpersonal relationship of ordinary people, to be a good foil is to lose hair, at least add a few gray hairs.