Late at night is a time when many people release their emotions. The more lonely people are, the more likely they are to party late at night.
Under the cover of night, all emotions are released, making people unconsciously indulge in it, and gradually slide into the abyss of emotion. But you know what? Late at night is fascinating, but it's also dangerous. If you're not careful, you'll make a mistake and make a decision that you'll regret. Chatting with the opposite sex late at night is the most taboo thing in a relationship, especially for those who are not suitable for being together, chatting in the middle of the night is undoubtedly dancing on a volcano, and if you are not careful, you will fall into the scorching lava. Don't casually talk to a person of the opposite sex in the middle of the night, something will happen. 
1. Chatting late at night will misestimate your emotionsLate at night is the most likely time of the day to feel lonely and lonely. People tend to remove the camouflage of the day, but at the same time they also remove the line of defense of emotions. At this time, emotions are like ships without a compass, drifting with the waves on the vast sea. You will misestimate your feelings for the other person because of a moment of loneliness or some kind of emotional turmoil. You may be surprised by the other person's "Are you okay?" And moved to tears, but forgot that this was just an ordinary greeting. "Loneliness is the biggest liar maker. "Under the invasion of loneliness in the middle of the night, we are easy to take a momentary emotion as a long-term emotion, and mistake a chance resonance for a spiritual fit. However, when the dawn comes, when you gradually wake up, you will find that those emotional fluctuations last night are nothing more than a one-man show of self-deception. When chatting late at night, people tend to be more likely to fall into a kind of emotional self-absorption. You will unconsciously embellish each other's image, exaggerate what you have in common, and even ignore the differences and contradictions that are evident during the day. This way, it is easier for you to mislead yourself and make some impulsive decisions. 
Second, chatting late at night will ignore realityAnother big problem with late-night chats is that it's easy to ignore reality. During the day, you can also see yourself and the world around you more clearly. You are able to analyze problems rationally and consider various possible consequences. But late at night, the mind tends to become less clear. At this time, it is easier to be driven by emotion and ignore the voice of reason. When you talk about feelings with the opposite sex late at night, you can imagine the future together and paint a beautiful picture. But the problem is that the future you envision may not be realistic at all. The ideal is very plump, the reality is very skinny, and you will ignore all kinds of difficulties and challenges in reality in the middle of the night, and only see the side you want to see. When you wake up from a dream and face the harsh reality, there is a high chance that you will feel disappointed and depressed. Some people may even choose to give up the relationship because they can't accept the huge gap between reality and dreams. 
3. Chat late at night and be impulsiveLate at night is the emotional climax and the most active time for the impulsive devil. At this time, some decisions may be made that you regret because of the impulse. "Impulsiveness is the devil. This sentence is vividly reflected in the late night chat. You may suddenly ignite an emotional fire because of a word or action from the other person, and you want to spend the rest of your life with the other person right away. But when we calm down, we realize that it was just a spur of the moment. However, some decisions are irreparable once they are made, and some damage is irreparable once they are done. So, late night is really not a good time to talk about feelings with the opposite sex, if you really want to develop a relationship with each other, then you might as well choose a time period during the day, in a sober and rational state, talk to each other well, understand each other's thoughts and feelings, see if you are really suitable for being together, and do so not only to be responsible for yourself, but also to each other. Remember, "Love takes time to cultivate, not a hasty decision made on the spur of the night at night." "Only in this way can we go on a more stable and long-term emotional path.