Do you often meet people who make you feel like you've met your nemesis, and getting along with them is like walking into an invisible black hole that makes you tired and even makes you doubt life? The originally peaceful life has become full of twists and turns and even difficult because of meeting these people?
These people may be your colleagues, friends, relatives, or even your partner, and they may cause you endless troubles, pain, and loss, and make you doubt your own worth.
You try to struggle, you try to change, but it always ends up failing. So, have you ever wondered,The root of these problems is that you are in contact with the wrong people？We meet all kinds of people in our lives, some of whom share the same interests and those who have different interests. Some people can make us feel happy and fulfilled, while others can only make us feel miserable and helpless. However, for various reasons, we often get entangled with those who are not right, which brings endless troubles and pain to ourselves. You may say that no one is perfect, everyone has shortcomings, and we should be tolerant and understanding of others. That's right, that's right. However, we cannot ignore the fact that there is a frequency between peopleSome people's frequencies are too far apart from ours to resonate at all
It's like two different instruments, no matter how hard you try, you can't play a harmonious movement. There are some people who you always feel uncomfortable with and cannot agree on both words and deeds. At this point, you should realize that you and this person are not suitable for you. Don't try to change him, and don't try to adapt to him. These people are destined to be just passers-by in your life, they will not bring you any help and growth, they will only make you fall into endless troubles and pain. For these people, we must learn to cut ties in time and not let them continue to affect our lives. Set boundaries for yourself, don't be afraid of offending people, and don't be afraid of losing something. Because if you are with the wrong person, what you lose will be your own time and energy, and even your soul. The magnetic fields of people are attracted to each otherJust as a magnet attracts nails, we attract people who are similar to us. That's why we should always be vigilant about our surroundings and people to avoid falling into the vortex of negative energy. Do you know why Meng's mother moved three times? Because she knows that the impact of the environment on people is huge. When she feels that the environmental magnetic field is not right, she will leave immediately, preferring to hide far away than reluctantly, this is the choice of the wise. When working with people, I also have my own principles, and whenever it doesn't feel right, I will break it immediately. Even if I lose some profits, I won't work with the wrong people, the person who is not right in the first place will only bring greater disaster.
You might say, just put up with it at first. But I want to tell you, you endured it at the beginning, and then the disaster that happened, you can't even imagine. Therefore, sunk costs are not the most important thing, and they must be controlled at the beginning. If you find yourself with someone who always feels uncomfortable, uncomfortable, there is always friction and conflict. Then you should seriously think about whether this person is someone who does not match your frequency? If yes, what you have to do is not to change yourself to fit the person, but to stay away from the person. Some people will ask how to identify the wrong person? It's really simple, it's just to see if they can make you better. If you find that a person is always bringing you negative energy, making you feel unhappy, or even making you doubt yourself, then that person is likely to be the wrong person. At this time, you have to be brave enough to give up and not let this person continue to affect your life. Conversely, if a person can make you feel confident, happy, and growing, then he is someone worth reaching out to. Life is short, so why waste precious time dealing with the wrong people? Instead of struggling with a catastrophe, it is better to refuse to dwell on a potential disaster star in the first place. In life, we can't let these wrong people occupy our lives, learn to stop losses in time, and don't let these wrong people continue to consume our energy and time. Summon a dragon for a group photo