Men are like eagles in the sky, it is not easy to tame, but once you do, you have to tame.
Women always try to keep a man's heart, but some women use too much force, and some women use too much force, so that the man fails to keep it, and he is injured.
In fact, it is not difficult to keep men's hearts, as long as you grasp their psychology and give them what they want, you can do it.
You can try the following four points, which are very helpful to retain men's hearts.
1. Understand his heart
In the world of feelings, understanding is more important than love.
Everyone has their own personality and habits, and this is true for men.
They may need some alone time, or they may prefer a quieter life.
To understand his heart is to respect his personality, to accept his habits, to make him feel understood and accepted, then they will feel that you are his soul mate.
You have to give him a comfortable home and let him find his place in this home.
In understanding, he will gradually understand your goodness, and then take the initiative to increase his contribution to you.
2. Give him plenty of space
Men are independent individuals, and they need to have their own space.
This space is not only a physical space, but also a psychological space.
To give him space is to give him time to do the things he likes, to have space to think and deal with his own things.
To give him space is to give him freedom and let him find his wings in your love.
It's like he wants you not to interfere with his social interactions, then you should understand more, trust him more, and if a man loves you, then he himself will deal with the distance between him and the opposite sex.
3. Support his dreams
Everyone has their own dreams, but not everyone is able to achieve them.
But if you can be a part of his dream realization, then he will love you very much, just like I saw some time ago, there was a girl who saw that a man's computer was used for a long time, so she directly equipped himself with a computer.
At that time, the man was dumbfounded the moment he entered the door, believing that no matter what happened in the future, the man would think of today's excitement.
At that time, some netizens commented that the moment you did this, you will be forgiven for anything wrong in the future.
Sometimes a man understands very well, if you treat him well, support him to fulfill his dreams, and realize his wishes, then your status in his heart will be higher than his own.
In a word, to support his dreams is to give him the strength to find his way in your love.
4. Stay attractive
If you want to have a good relationship, then attraction will be very important.
Staying attractive, not just on the outside, but also on the inside.
Attraction means that he is always fresh and curious about you.
In the ordinary life, because of your presence, his life is colorful, then you will be as indispensable as the sunshine in his world.
You have to make him feel your value, and you have to make him dare not leave you, and he is not willing to leave you.
To retain a man's heart, in addition to being full of sincerity, you should also pay more attention to some "routines".
You have to start with his spirit, understand him, support him, respect him, and let him understand that he can't do without you.
When you make a man mentally dependent on you, then he will think of you no matter what he does.
Of course, all mental control has to be moderate, and you can try to improve yourself while taking care of his emotional spirit.
Loving someone, in fact, is like raising flowers, as long as you put your heart into it, the sprout of love will one day bloom into gorgeous flowers.