The vast majority of second marriages are difficult to be happy, do you know why? In real life, the second marriage is often more difficult than the first marriage, today I will analyze it for you, why is it difficult to achieve happiness in the second marriage?
The first type: a woman who divorces and has a child, especially a boy. Men don't have children, and even then, so to speak, the vast majority of men are not willing to marry you. In fact, many men don't mind that you are married or have children, what makes men mind is that you make money to raise other people's children.
Men earn money to raise sons for others, and in the end it is thankless. Eventually, this son will be a source of family conflict. If you discipline him too loosely, he will say that you do not regard him as your own son, and if you discipline him too strictly, he will say that you do not treat him as your own son.
Even if these are not problems, when the boy grows up and then gets married, buys a house, buys a car, the economic pressure is indeed very great, and it is too difficult for an ordinary man to marry such a woman and help her son get married and have children, so men are very reluctant.
The second type: women divorce with children, and men divorce with children. At this time, you have to be prepared to be a stepmother, even if you prepare more, many times it is wrong. And you will not be a person inside and out, you will find that a man who is married for the second time, no matter when, will protect his children.
The money earned by men will be spent on their children in the first place. Your child spends very little money, and when you ask a man for money, he will guard you like a thief. When there is a conflict between two children, the man will always favor his own child and always say that your child is not.
It is difficult to treat children who are not their own, and it is better for a woman to have a certain economic foundation for remarriage, and she must have her own job, so that her children will not be wronged.
The third type: couples who remarry have financial reservations. And the husband and wife are still on guard, and the two of them are more sensitive when it comes to money. Men don't trust you and don't really give to your children. It may be said that it is more aggrieved than the previous marriage.
Their own children have been hurt and will leave the good side of themselves to their biological children. As for your child, he won't think about it so much.
In fact, every marriage requires a man and a woman to give their sincerity. If a man is sincere to a woman, he will love the house and the house, and treat the woman's children as if they were his own. For women, they can't treat men's children the same way they treat their own children, but what? Be sure to accept each other's children, too. If a woman marries again and the man is unwilling to accept your child from the heart, then I will advise you to be cautious and cautious.