It's almost the New Year, take care of your elderly parents, especially the elderly living in nursing homes, they are so pitiful. He should have raised you young, and you raised him old. However, in real life, many elderly people have to send them to nursing homes because their children cannot afford to take care of them due to various diseases. My mother-in-law was sent to a nursing home because she was bedridden for a long time, and her children were old and unable to take care of her, so she was sent to a nursing home, where she lived for more than a year, and finally died in the nursing home, she didn't blink her eyes when she died, she wanted to take one last look at her children, but her wish did not come true, because there was an epidemic at the time, and the nursing home did not let people in, and the old man was so pitiful!
In the nursing home, it is often felt that time flies very slowly, everyone is after breakfast, waiting for lunch, waiting for dinner after lunch, and often hearing the elderly sigh after dinner, this day has finally passed again. This is how they live in loneliness and despair, with no entertainment and no purpose, and can only suffer with difficulty, waiting for death to come.
Now my eldest sister is still living in a nursing home, I often watch her with my lover, as soon as I enter the nursing home, I feel very depressed, many old people, helpless lying in bed, maybe their present is our future. Now they are all only children, they really don't have the energy to take care of the elderly, they have to survive, they have to eat, if you can't take care of yourself, is there still a choice?
Nursing homes are supposed to be places for the elderly to spend their days in their lives, but now they have become a cage from which some people cannot escape. For profit, some unscrupulous nursing homes do not hesitate to sacrifice the health and dignity of the elderly. Driven by the pursuit of high profits, they reduce staffing, reduce the quality of their diets, and ignore illness and pain. The supervision of nursing homes by relevant departments is not in place, and there is a lack of effective law enforcement and daily inspections. Some shady nursing homes have taken advantage of regulatory loopholes, abusing their power and abusing the elderly. This not only poses a huge problem to the families of the elderly, but also tramples on the moral bottom line of the entire society.
When people are old, it's really hard to have a hard time, especially those who are sick, living like a year, dying and dying, living and *** Each of us can take action, pay more attention to the elderly around us, care for their life dynamics, and give them warmth and encouragement. Only by working together can we change this social status quo and enable every elderly person to live a safe and happy old age.