"The sorrow of the "three-no" woman's trade-off between emotional choice and marital stability!"！
Behind the love. Suddenly**.
The cousin slammed the door with an unhappy face"Bang"The sound echoed in the room, and the atmosphere instantly froze. The child's eyes were filled with tears, and his voice was choked with excitement. This scene is unsettling, as if it is a sign that this year is destined to be eventful. The cousin's temper is getting more and more irritable, but he regards his cousin as the object of venting. Whether it is blaming the sister-in-law or accusing the sister-in-law of behavior, the cousin is not a problem. My cousin was sent to someone else's home to raise her since she was a child. At the age of 14, she began to work in various industries, eventually working in the beauty and bodybuilding industry in Beijing. She has no family background to rely on, no strong academic qualifications to back her up, and no stable career. It can be said that she is a typical one"Three nos"Female. Her cousin grew up under the doting of his parents, has a good family background, and runs a small supermarket. After getting married, they soon had a child, and the sister-in-law could not return to work, so she concentrated on taking care of the child. However, in his early years, due to various reasons, his cousin's income dropped sharply, and he relied on family support to make ends meet. Now, as his cousin's income recovers, his temper becomes more and more willful and arrogant, often throwing tantrums at home.
The family couldn't explain what kind of person the cousin was outside. At home, he is like a willful child, doing whatever he wants. Look at what just happened: he asked his cousin to put the child to sleep, and the cousin explained that the child had rested enough during the day and was not sleepy now. The cousin ignored it, picked up the child and walked into the bedroom, closing the door tightly. After a while, the child began to cry. The cousin opened the door, hugged the child and said that she had rolled out of bed. Parents rushed to the scene and severely reprimanded the cousin. My cousin also lost control of his emotions, picked up the car keys, and loudly said that he wanted to go back to Beijing. Before leaving, he asked his brother-in-law impatiently:"Will you go back with me?"The cousin didn't say a word and slammed the door. I still remember that my cousin's first love was a flight attendant with a Beijing hukou. At that time, my cousin was polite and obedient to her, but now it seems to be very different. After my cousin left, I thought my sister-in-law would be domineering. Unexpectedly, she acted very calmly, as if nothing had happened. "I'm used to it. I had my family mail my account to me, but I never opened it. We've been talking a lot about divorce for a long time. "The cousin's daughter-in-law said it lightly and didn't seem to care. And I, seeing the child's struggle, was very excited. In fact, if a woman's conditions are not good, she must not marry an immature man, let alone give birth to the next generation hastily. Otherwise, the real ordeal may have just begun.
Adversity of the heart.
It is often said that marriage is walking on thin ice. However, when"Three nos"When a woman chooses to marry a rich, immature man, this thin ice becomes even more fragile and fragile. In this marriage, the sister-in-law has always played the role of helplessness, often being blamed but having nowhere to confide. Whether it is the trivial matters of family life or the pressure she faces, she suppresses it in her heart and rarely finds opportunities to vent. Because she knows that any venting can lead to arguments and greater conflict. Her heart may be filled with unwillingness to live and fear of marriage, but she can't choose to escape from reality. The situation made her feel trapped and helpless, as if the whole world was unfair to her.
Be strong in silence.
Although her sister-in-law always has a calm face in the face of difficulties, the resistance in her heart is unshakable. She endured not only the troubles of family trivialities, but also all kinds of incompetence in marriage and life. However, she chose to remain silent, not because of weakness, but because of the strength of her heart. In countless quarrels and complaints, she chose to stick to the warmth of her family and silently endure her husband's incomprehension and indifference. Maybe she longs for change, but she knows the cruelty of reality. So she chose tolerance and forbearance, so that this originally beautiful marriage could continue. Beneath the calm exterior lies a fighting heart, carrying the burdens and responsibilities of the family.
Summary. For one"Three nos"For women, there is no greater sorrow than choosing to marry a man with an immature mind. The life after marriage is no longer a beautiful vision, but a process of gradual hardship, grinding and helplessness. In this type of marital relationship, women are often ignored, blamed, hurt, and even lose themselves. Their hearts may be filled with dissatisfaction with life and fear of marriage, but they cannot escape reality. However, even in the face of difficulties and pressures, these women chose to be strong, silent, tolerant and forgiving. They are silent, but their power is enormous. I hope, all"It didn't work"of women are able to stay strong in the face of adversity and find their own way out of life. No matter how many difficulties you encounter, you must believe that life will eventually usher in the sunshine.