I've just retired, and my pace of life has slowed down a lot, but every day I keep doing things for myself, and I haven't had time to feel monotonous.
Will there be monotony in the future? I think it probably will, after all, 24 hours a day, a lot of things are done repeatedly. Most of life's ordinary daily life is the majority, and the highlight moments in life are limited. We will eventually face a common problem, how to live ordinary daily life to the fullest.
I've seen a person from my father's generation, after retirement, my temperament gradually changed, I kept a distance from everyone, and I became a stranger. There is a classic line in the movie "The Tuner": What life is depends on the person who lives it. If you want to make your daily life after retirement not monotonous and tasteful, that is, to give yourself a position that enthusiastically embraces ordinary life, treats every day, everything and everyone with enthusiasm, not perfunctory, not depressed, not indifferent, open-minded, and stretched. Choose sunlight and you will be warm, choose moonlight and you will see the beauty of femininity after dark, and your attitude is your world.
Two weeks ago, I went to the Garden Restaurant in Shekou to dine, and as soon as I entered the door, I was attracted by a large handful of wind chime cut flowers in the restaurant, and the green leaves accompanied the strings of small white flowers on the branches, which were very elegant and fresh. The meal ended soon but the bellflower into my eyes, after I went home, I placed an online order to buy the seeds of the bellflower, this time the small pot of seedlings, I was simple because of the ugliness, modified with a plastic box containing eggs, and made full preparations for the seedlings, just waiting for the weather in Shenzhen to be sunny again. A few days ago, I found a wind chime cut flower ** on Meituan, and I quickly bought a bouquet and inserted it in a vase, although it was only a small bouquet of flowers, it was really beautiful.
In life, if I find something I love, I will quietly pay attention to it, and sometimes it will benefit my family, and they will also give out praise and surprise. After retirement, to feel the beautiful extension from everyday things, the taste is hidden in the subtleties.
If you want to live an ordinary daily life without being monotonous, you must also learn to find fun. Now I pay attention to the surrounding things, last night's walk is based on the information, deliberately went to the direction of the Mixc, saw the beautiful, Ling**Lian to welcome the Spring Festival of the Year of the Dragon, I can't help but take a lot of **, back home will be the yellow lantern** to share with the big family group, let the old father appreciate. Master Mr. Ryuichi Sakamoto said in his book that trees emit weak bioelectric currents, and he transforms them into ** presentation. When I go out and walk, I like to observe the trees on the side of the street, and I really feel the aura of those ancient trees, and I often stare at them as I walk, and sometimes stop under some wonderful tree, and I believe that they will also stare at me. Interacting with natural objects increases our spirituality and makes it a lot of fun.
In order to live an ordinary life without being monotonous, I think it is important to create a sense of fulfillment. A friend I have known since I was a child told me that I didn't expect me to love writing so much. I jokingly said that writing small essays made me feel like I was at work. Since I retired, I've picked up a number of hobbies, some of which I've been sticking to. Writing is my new attempt, my writing level needs to be improved, and I am willing to write and not be afraid to share. Today, I saw an article by a like-minded person who encouraged everyone to actively write about it, which gave me a lot of motivation. What I hope is that the level of small composition will be improved a little, and the brain melon can always stay awake under the exercise of thinking. Proactive thinking creates a sense of fulfillment, which is what I have learned from writing.
I believe that if we take it seriously, be careful in our lives, be willing to discover, find our own hobbies that make us feel fulfilling, and stick to it, we will have a very happy and happy retirement life.