"Neighbors don't make friends, relatives don't leave".This is a piece of advice that has been left to people from their ancestors, and its meaning is much more than just a literal meaning.
This advice tells people to choose carefully about their interactions with neighbors and relatives, as their actions and attitudes directly affect our lives and emotions.
Neighbors don't pay either
1. Neighbors who love to say right and wrong do not pay.
There is an old saying: "Distant relatives are better than close neighbors". However, if your neighbor is someone who likes to make trouble and sow discord, then this statement does not hold.
Bad neighbors are like a time bomb that can detonate conflicts in your home at any time. Therefore, such neighbors must stay away from each other and stop having dealings.
In life, perhaps, you will also meet some neighbors who like to gossip, they always like to go around gossiping, inquire about other people's news, and spread other people's privacy.
This kind of neighbor should not contact or talk, otherwise it will bring unwarranted troubles and trivialities.
Second, the neighbor with poor family style does not pay.
The first allusion cited in the "Three Character Classic" is "Xi Mengmu, choose a neighbor, the son does not learn, and the machine is broken".
It is difficult to change a person's family style, and if you are with a neighbor who has a poor home, you will also be affected by him.
In fact, the ancient people paid the most attention to the family style, in order to maintain the pure family style, they also left a variety of contents such as family motto and family responsibility.
Neighbors with poor family style will affect your offspring, or invisibly produce feng shui changes. While personal effort is the most important factor, the surroundings are also very important.
Relatives don't leave
In addition to neighbors, relatives should also be cautious.
First, relatives who only value interests do not leave.
If it is a relative, only focusing on interests, and taking advantage of things that are beneficial to him, he will get benefits from it, and if it is not good for himself, or if he has no interest, he will escape every time.
The ancients suggested that there was no need to go, and even if they did, they would go in vain, and the other party would not admit affection in their eyes.
Some relatives only value social status and wealth, ignoring feelings and integrity, such relatives have no meaning to see, early recognition, strong themselves, is the most important.
2. Ungrateful relatives do not leave.
This kind of relatives also needs to be treated with caution, rather than having too much contact with such relatives, it is better to maintain an indifferent attitude and stay away from their hypocrisy.
They often turn away when they need help the most, and they are ungrateful for their families' efforts.
They forget what others have done for them, turn around and look for other help, never grateful.
Rather than continuing the relationship with such relatives, it is better to break away and reduce the chance of harm.
Third, the relatives of negative energy do not go.
Everyone has a few relatives with negative energy, and they always like to complain about life and spread negative energy.
Every time I get along with them, it is as if I have been dragged into a black hole of emotions, and when I come out, I am only tired and depressed.
Such relatives must be cut off, they will only bring you negative energy and the impact of your life.
If you succeed, they will speculate on you in various ways, and if you are at a low point, they will not encourage you, but will instead stand by and watch you coldly.
However, it is important to make it clear that "neighbors don't make friends, and relatives don't leave" is not to be completely avoided.
Instead, choose carefully when interacting, keep an appropriate distance, and always be vigilant about their behavior and attitudes.
If you find that your interactions with neighbors or relatives are not respectful of each other, cannot support each other, and will cause distress and pain, then you should adjust in time, live a good life, and keep your distance.
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