When a man asks you for these things, he is not calculating, but he loves you to the bone

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-02-05

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In the relationship between the sexes, we often hear the question: what exactly do men want? In fact, what men "want" in love is often not money or material things, but these things. They "demand" these from you, not out of calculation, but because they love you to the core.

1. Trust. Trust is the cornerstone of emotion. A man who truly loves you needs more than just your body and heart, but also your complete trust. He wants him to be the only one in your heart, and he also wants you to open your heart to him, not to hide or deceive.

I remember one time, my husband and I went to a friend's party together. A friend joked, "Your husband is so handsome, be careful not to be snatched away by others." I smiled and replied, "Don't worry, he's the best in my eyes." "At that moment, I saw the pride and satisfaction in my husband's eyes.

2. Accompaniment. Companionship is the most affectionate confession. A man who loves you, he will want you to spend more time with him, whether it's spending romantic time with him or experiencing the trivialities of life.

A colleague of mine is very busy at work, but he spends his weekends shopping and watching movies with his girlfriend. "Work is about giving my girlfriend a better life, but it's the time I spend with her that counts," he said. Such a man is undoubtedly deeply in love with each other.

3. Support. Every man wants the support and encouragement of his beloved woman when he is in trouble. Your support is the greatest strength for him.

Applejack used to be famous in our circle of friends", ** but after meeting the girl he liked, he began to pay attention. Once he failed to start a business and was depressed. Not only did the girl not blame him, but she also used her savings to support him to start over. Applejack says, "At that moment, I knew she was my man." ”

Fourth, space.

Love needs the right space. The man who loves you wants you to be able to respect his personal space and privacy. This kind of respect will make him cherish and love you even more.

I have a girlfriend who loves her boyfriend very much, but sometimes she feels depressed by being overly concerned. Later, at the reminder of her boyfriend, she learned to give each other some independent space and time. "This kind of love is healthier," she said. ”

5. Understanding. Long live understanding! In love, sometimes what is needed is not comfort and advice, but a person who understands himself. A man who loves you, he will want you to be able to truly understand his inner world.

Ah Wei is a very ambitious man who often works overtime until late. His girlfriend knows that he has his own ideals and ambitions, so she rarely complains about the lack of time he spends with him. "I understand him, so I cherish every moment with him even more," she said. Such a woman is undoubtedly a treasure in the hearts of men.

When a man "asks" you for trust, companionship, support, space, and understanding, don't easily question his motives. Because these "demands" are precisely the manifestation of his deep love for you.

May every woman understand the voice of a man, and manage and maintain her love with her heart; May every man cherish the person in front of him and spend a good time with her.

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