Title: Those things that go home for the New Year - affection always makes tears ripple.
Haha, dear friends, hello! Happy New Year and a prosperous Year of the Dog! Today, let's talk about going home for the New Year, and let me tell you a little story first.
And guess what? A few years ago, I went to my husband's cousin's house with my husband and a few relatives. It was a very lively scene, everyone ate with a round belly, and they all laughed happily, as if they were singing a big opera. That night, the two cousins and sisters-in-law we were guests were leaving home to work in the south. To be honest, I wasn't too close to them, but when I saw my cousin, who was still talking and laughing with us, quietly wiped away her tears, I felt like I had knocked over a five-flavor bottle, and my heart was full of taste, and tears fell down. This is like watching a tear gas blockbuster, which can make people cry at once.
The traditional culture of our country is really magical, especially when it comes to the Chinese New Year, it is a time of crazy migration of the whole people, as if they can't live if they don't go back for the New Year. You think, before you come to someone's house, there is always a helper cleaning the room, and the scene is very lively. And then these wandering people are especially able to understand the bitterness and bitterness of this. These wanderers who have left their hometowns, no matter how early they leave or late, their mood of scratching their heads will not change. It's sad to see how much pressure they put on to eliminate their stores. Hey, come back to reunite with your family, open the door to see old acquaintances, say hello to relatives you haven't seen in a long time, have a glass of wine, talk about old things, and at the same time leave memories that don't forget old emotions.
Seriously, at the beginning of this year, I went back to my mother's house and met a group of old watches, my brother, the big man who was the host, he was always very excited before introducing guests to dinner, what a master of banquets! The men immediately came alive and toasted each other, so drunk that their faces were so red that some of them could not even walk steadily. The eldest cousin said angrily: "I haven't had a party for a whole year, what's wrong with drinking some wine?" "Then I had to stand there awkwardly, and I did it out of concern that my husband was drinking too much. In fact, we should enjoy this rare time together, no matter how much alcohol we drink, as long as we have the heart! Those old watches don't drink very often, but everyone was very happy that day, and it was a rare opportunity to see them drink like this, so they should have a good drink!
Actually, I don't completely reject the fact that they drank for pleasure at that time, on the contrary, I have a soft spot for the way they express their nostalgia through alcohol. After all, when I was a child, I still remember the scene when my father and visiting friends hooked their fingers at the wine table and guessed the size of the cards in each other's hands, and the atmosphere was particularly warm, but now, this scene can only become a memory. Jia Baoyu in "Dream of Red Mansions", the most distressing thing is undoubtedly that he faced many girls who accompanied him to the Grand View Garden to play and recite poems one after another to leave his life, and his family was declining. When we get home and see more and more of our loved ones, we can all let go of all the tiredness and worries of the year. Although the time is short, it can make us deeply feel the warmth of our hometown and the importance of family affection. In that case, I don't think it can really be called a little tragedy if I can't go home for the New Year!
For thousands of years, there have been countless literati who have experienced setbacks and hardships, and it is precisely with "Dream of Red Mansions", which is independent of history, that Cao Xueqin can be accepted by future generations. The saddest thing about this unlucky doll Jia Baoyu is that he sees that the spring has passed, and the beautiful woman who once accompanied him is slowly leaving him. Recalling that feast, we will all understand that home is always an inseparable feeling for us. Finally, I wish my dear friends, the door is always open, three meals are fed, and happiness and health are always in the New Year! Happy New Year and Happy Year of the Dog, everyone!