In this world, there is a relationship so familiar that we can almost ** each other's breath and heartbeat. However, when the relationship is sublimated into marriage, does that familiarity still bring the same sense of security? What is it like to marry someone you know too well? It's a topic worth a**.
The story of Li Ming and Zhang Wei is one such example. They go from childhood sweethearts to growing old together, which seems to be a match made in heaven. However, when they stood in the wedding hall and exchanged vows, there was an indescribable strange feeling in their hearts.
Their love story began as a child, when they chased through the fields, climbed fruit trees together, and shared every summer afternoon and autumn twilight. As they grew older, their friendship quietly took root and turned into love. After graduating from college, the two chose to enter the palace of marriage.
For Li Ming and Zhang Wei, life after marriage is not only a continuation of the familiar, but also a new challenge. They get used to each other's preferences and know when the other person needs comfort and when they need space. However, as time went on, this familiarity also brought with it a hint of exhaustion.
The little frictions in life begin to show. For example, Zhang Wei always habitually hung wet towels on the bathroom door, while Li Ming insisted on hanging them back on the towel rack. Such a trivial matter may seem trivial before marriage, but it becomes a point of contention after marriage. They are beginning to realize that even the most familiar people have their own lifestyles and habits.
The stress of work also caused a rift in their relationship. Li Ming is ambitious and often works overtime until late at night, while Zhang Wei hopes that he can go home early to accompany his family. The two had never quarreled over such a thing before marriage, but now it became a reason for their quarrel.
However, despite such challenges, Li Ming and Zhang Wei's marriage is not without sweetness. In the time they spent together, they could always find that initial touch. Whenever the two are relatively silent in the dead of night, the familiar heartbeat will become their greatest comfort.
They learn to grow in marriage and learn to respect and understand each other's differences. They start trying new things, traveling together, learning new skills together. These fresh experiences breathe new life into their marriage.
In the end, Li Ming and Zhang Wei understood that marrying someone who knew each other too well meant that they had to constantly adapt and adjust. The sense of security and foresight that comes with familiarity is a valuable asset, but it also requires the courage to accept each other's differences and create a new world for both of them.
In this world full of uncertainties, marrying someone you know too well is an adventure, a deep self-exploration. It asks us to plant the seeds of novelty on familiar soils and let them thrive in the sunshine of love.
The story of Li Ming and Zhang Wei tells us that marriage is not the end of a story, but the beginning of another story. In this new chapter, familiarity and novelty are intertwined to form a unique picture. And we, whether we are working with familiar people or strangers, need to write our own love stories with our hearts.