Girls in the rebellious period not only have the same commonality as all children in the rebellious period, but also have particularities because of the physical and psychological characteristics of young girls, so the education and guidance of girls in the rebellious period need to pay more attention to methods and methods.
First, care and care. Adolescent girls are in a period of physical and psychological changes, and parents, especially mothers, should always pay attention to the physical and psychological changes of their children, and give necessary help and guidance in a timely manner to help their children smoothly pass through this period of physical and psychological transition.
Second, listen and understand. Girls in the rebellious period will show psychological characteristics such as stubbornness and resistance, and this time is the most test of parents' patience and wisdom. Parents should change their mentality, lower their posture, listen carefully to what the girl has to say as a listener, grasp the emotional fluctuations in their children's hearts in a timely manner, understand their feelings, encourage them to express their opinions, and avoid immediate refutation and denial.
Third, trust and support. Adolescent girls begin to have a sense of independence and desire to have personal freedom and privacy, parents should trust their children, support them from both spiritual and material aspects, and avoid blind suppression and excessive intervention.
Fourth, the power of example. As the saying goes, "words are better than deeds", and for girls in the rebellious period, demonstration is more effective than preaching. Parents should lead by example, take the lead in setting an example, and establish a positive image by working hard for the family and society, and subtly influence their children to establish a correct world view, outlook on life, and values.
Fifth, standardize guidance. Parents can not blindly trust, support, understand and respect adolescent girls, and let them go, nor can they blindly blame and criticize excessively, dampening children's self-esteem, which must be standardized and guided. Norms are those that respect their individuality and set clear rules and boundaries for behavior. Guidance is to cultivate girls' sense of self-protection, decision-making ability and self-confidence on the premise of encouraging them to think independently and solve problems.
In short, through the above five tips, girls in the rebellious period should be properly educated and counseled to help them through this special stage of growth. However, if your child is not working well with the above advice, it is best to seek professional guidance.