On a sunny morning in 2003, Shen Teng and Wang Qi met at a military academy. At that time, Shen Teng, as a student of the performance department, was energetic and heroic, not only recognized by his classmates, but also loved by the teacher because of his superb acting talent and funny skills. 
However, the heart of this man of the year is unexpectedly delicate and sensitive. Early that morning, Shen Teng walked back to the dormitory as usual, but saw an unfamiliar figure sitting quietly on a bench by the playground. That's Wang Qi, a new transfer student from the acting department. The rising sun plated her side face with a layer of gold edges, ** as crystal clear as clotted cream. She was wearing a straight military uniform, her demeanor was calm, and her hands were gently clasped together, just like a fairy. Shen Teng was immediately attracted by her outstanding temperament, and walked up to her with a ghostly gesture, hesitating to introduce himself. Wang Qi smiled slightly, nodded, and the two started a conversation. 
During the conversation, Shen Teng was surprised to find that this seemingly calm girl was extremely sensitive in her heart, her eyes would sparkle when she talked about drama, and her smile would be sweet and moving. From that day on, Shen Teng's heart was firmly grasped by Wang Qi. In order to learn more about her, Shen Teng began to take the initiative to ask Wang Qi to practice, watch plays, and discuss performances together. Wang Qi admires Shen Teng's unique understanding of the performing arts, and is also infected by his enthusiastic and sincere attitude towards knowledge. In this way, the two hearts got closer and closer under the backdrop of art and ideals, and finally confirmed each other's hearts. Despite the red and willow green flowers outside the wall, they only focused on each other's eyes. 
After 12 years of long-distance running, when Shen Teng's career was successful, he walked hand in hand into the palace of marriage. 2016 can be said to be the peak of Shen Teng's career. That year, he became a popular student with his outstanding performance in the hit drama "Charlotte's Troubles". His popularity and popularity have increased rapidly, and resources have come one after another, which can be said to be both fame and fortune. 
However, the good times were short-lived. With Shen Teng's rapid rise, there was also a scandal between him and Ma Li, the heroine of the same play. Although the two denied their relationship, there was still gossip one after another. In this regard, Wang Qi saw it in his eyes and was anxious in his heart. She was worried that Shen Teng's feelings would drift away with fame, and she was also afraid that she would be abandoned by this circle. Out of insecurity about love, Wang Qi chose to take the initiative - she proposed to officially get married and be firmly tied to Shen Teng. At first, Shen Teng was still on the rise in his career and was reluctant to enter marriage too early. But seeing Wang Qi's anxious expression, he realized that he had to give a sincere response. 
So, under Wang Qi's requests again and again, Shen Teng finally agreed. In this way, in 2016, the two officially registered their marriage, ended their 12-year love run, and began their married life. The wedding of Shen Teng and Wang Qi was held with the blessings of two families and friends. On the wedding night, Shen Teng looked at Wang Qi's delicate eyes and whispered, "From now on, I will always accompany you." 
In the days after marriage, they lived sweetly. A year later, Wang Qi was overjoyed, and Shen Teng was even more happy, leaving early and returning late every day, taking care of his wife and children with all his heart. After childbirth, Wang Qi devoted himself to the role of mother. During the day, she takes her children to picture book duets and drama games, and has no time to manage her body at all. In order to give the child the most perched embrace, she did not deliberately control her diet. Gradually, the wife's figure was gone, replaced by the mother's warm and plump silhouette. At first, Wang Qi was just a little mellow, and Shen Teng praised her for having a more maternal aura than before. 
But during the epidemic, the two of them always stayed at home, Wang Qi ate more openly, exercised less, and his weight skyrocketed. Finally, one day, Shen Teng looked at Wang Qi, who was lying on the sofa taking a nap with his belly bulging, and realized the seriousness of the problem. He tried hard to persuade Wang Qi to control his weight, but Wang Qi always listened and splashed out one ear. "I'm a mother now, and I'm not an actor, so I don't care if it's an image or not! Wang Qi said dissatisfiedly. Gradually, Wang Qi's body became more and more bloated. The slender ** of childhood has long been gone, replaced by two stout large tree stumps. However, her heart is filled with the happiness of being a mother. 
As long as he thinks of the cute child, Wang Qi forgets his determination to correct his figure. In the end, Wang Qi was very different from his former figure. But the smile on her face tells us that she has found her own happiness. As Wang Qi's figure becomes more and more out of shape, photos of her and Shen Teng also frequently appear under the lens of **. **One**, immediately received spicy comments from netizens. 
Is this Shen Teng's wife? I can't believe it! "Too fat, isn't she, she also deserves the surname Shen? "How can you look like this, Shen Teng can still hold it?" Bad comments about Wang Qi's appearance poured in like a tide. Everyone accused her of no longer paying attention to her image, and her seriously out of shape figure did not match Shen Teng, the darling of the entertainment industry. In fact, netizens look down on Wang Qi so much, which comes from the stereotypical imagination of the standard of a successful male star's wife. People always believe that the other half of the male god must be rich and handsome, with a hot body, as if the actress can only be hung as an ornament in the crook of the male star's arm. 
Wang Qi used to be an actor and was also known for being slender and slender. Now she no longer appears in front of the camera, and naturally embarks on the road of middle-aged fortune, which will inevitably attract criticism from the outside world. The public still uses superficial aesthetics to demand a woman who is already a wife. In fact, Wang Qi is just concentrating on dealing with the world, and no longer deliberately pleases other people's visual experience. She found the joy of being a wife and mother, which was the source of her happiness in life. But the outside world doesn't look at people by their connotations, they only accept her appearance as they are, and criticize her with a poisonous tongue for not being worthy of standing by Shen Teng's side.
When it comes to gender roles, China has not yet made full progress. Successful men can have a big belly and six relatives who don't recognize them, but women must always maintain a slim figure to be considered worthy of a good husband. If they allow themselves to go out of shape, they will be subject to public scrutiny like Wang Qi. Therefore, Wang Qi's experience also reveals the double standard of women's appearance in today's society. We must reflect on ourselves and learn to appreciate women's inner growth and transformation, rather than simply relying on the outside to judge a person. Although the outside world has criticized Wang Qi's figure, we can see from the recent public occasions of Shen Teng and his wife that the relationship between the two has not been affected by these criticisms.
For example, when attending the wedding of relatives and friends, Shen Teng silently sorted out Wang Qi's clothes, and Wang Qi replied with a sweet smile. When celebrating the child's birthday, the two smiled sweetly and looked at the crystallization of life with warmth. These small details all show that their relationship is as close as ever. In fact, a truly strong marriage should not be based on external conditions. For example, appearance, figure, wealth, etc. will fade with time. The two people who grow up will also change. The key is to understand, tolerate and support each other, so that we can go through the storm and move towards whitehead.
Shen Teng knew this very well, so he didn't care about the changes in Wang Qi's appearance, as long as the hearts of the two people were still closely connected. He gladly accepted Wang Qi's body as a mother, rather than simply seeing her as a decoration. This kind of connotative love allows the relationship between the two to withstand the test of the outside world. In fact, Shen Teng's mature love has also been sublimated in the film industry. He is no longer limited to funny roles, but has the courage to challenge different themes of life. Through the perception of the fate of different characters, Shen Teng gained a broad vision of life. This also allows him to be an admirable husband in real life without being bound by the outside.
Therefore, we should not deny this marriage just based on Wang Qi's current appearance. Instead, we should appreciate Shen Teng Wang Qi's sincere emotions beyond external cognition, and wish them to grow old together. This couple gave us a positive education on what a healthy marriage is. The love between Shen Teng and Wang Qi began with a beautiful encounter in youth, went through a long wait, and finally came to fruition. They are not afraid of the world's eyes and choose each other. Even if the years bring external transformation, the inner identity still makes them go through the wind and rain and join hands to the whitehead.
Stories like this give us valuable insights. To love someone, we should look at her inner essence and growth process, rather than the external popular packaging. Superficial judgments often hurt sincerity. We must learn to appreciate the growth of others, and to witness the power of love with tolerance and encouragement. The rarest thing in life is to meet a confidant who will accompany you for a lifetime. This requires the arrangement of fate, and also the awakening of our hearts. I believe that what happened to Shen Teng and Wang Qi was not accidental, but fate. Thank them for showing us that the essence of marriage is the union of two hearts.
I sincerely wish Shen Teng and Wang Qi to go on forever, so that more people can see what true love looks like. At the same time, I also wish everyone who sees their stories can find the other half of their lives. Let's work together to create new possibilities in life.