In the long years, we will all have such moments, try to go into the depths of a person's heart, hoping to be able to communicate and get closer to him. However, sometimes we meet people who are always busy, and we can't help but ask, "How much distance do we have to make up for it, and how long can we really be close to each other?" "For them, busyness seems to have become a habit, leaving us physically and mentally exhausted but unable to let go. So, how do we deal with this situation?
We should understand that there are many good things in life that are worth cherishing. And love is undoubtedly the most precious part of it. When we choose to enter the palace of love, we also have to take on the responsibility of pursuing happiness. Of course, this does not mean that all busyness is meaningless, we need to understand each other through communication, understand each other's needs and feelings. Only in this way can we better maintain this relationship.
For those who are busy, we can't simply see it as a sign of not caring about us or being distant. Sometimes, they do face many difficulties and challenges that require a lot of time and effort to solve them. At this time, we should give them full support and encouragement, so that they can feel our love and understanding.
If they always use busyness as an excuse to shirk spending time with us, then we have to seriously consider whether their sincerity is still with us. If you really care about someone, you can find time to spend with each other no matter what. If they are really busy to the point that they can't get along, but they don't even have time to send a few messages or connect once, then this relationship may not be as perfect as you expect.
"busy" should not be an excuse for an indifferent attitude. The things we really care about are often worth spending more time and energy on. Therefore, when someone keeps emphasizing busyness to us, perhaps we need to think deeply about whether our position in the other person's heart is really important.
Love requires both parties to work together to operate and maintain. If we play the unhurried side in this role, then we will naturally earn the respect and attention of the other person. Although love cannot predict future changes, as long as we are willing to take care of each other and reduce the distance between each other as much as possible, there will come a time when we will be closer to each other.