On January 17, 2010, in the third issue of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", a male guest who loves riding but has no job affectionately confessed to the sweet-looking graphic model Ma Nuo: "Are you willing to ride a bicycle with me and walk between the mountains and rivers?" ”
Ma Nuo said with a contemptuous expression: "Then I'll sit in the BMW and cry." ”
As soon as Ma Nuo's words came out, they immediately became popular all over the Internet, and for a while, "I'd rather cry while sitting in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle" became a hot search on the Internet, and the image of Mano as a gold-worshipping woman was also deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
Mano's words deeply hurt those men who believe in love, and people can't help but ask: "Is love in this world an accessory to money?" ”
However, it turns out that Mano is only an insignificant member of the crowd, and "she" interprets the original appearance of love.
Her name is Dong Lili, a native of Shandong, and her husband Zhao Huahai divorced in November 2010, but not long after the two divorced, her husband Zhao Huahai was diagnosed with advanced uremia, in the face of this difficult choice, Dong Lili resolutely chose to remarry her husband, and said to her husband affectionately: "I will donate a kidney to you, if the matching is not successful, I will sell my kidney and buy you a suitable one."
So what kind of touching story is this, why did the husband and wife divorce when they loved each other so much?
One day in 2011, a middle-aged man in his 30s was admitted to a hospital in Yantai, Shandong Province, who was Zhao Huahai.
At this time, Zhao Huahai, a 1.85-meter-old Shandong man, has long lost his former handsomeness and chic, his whole face is black, weak and thin, and he is lying on the hospital bed and even his voice is weak, but what makes the doctor strange is that it is such a patient with advanced uremia, and there is no one to accompany him when he is hospitalized.
After a few days, the doctor asked with concern: "You are so seriously ill, why is there no one in the family to take care of you", listening to the doctor's words, Zhao Huahai just shook his head and didn't say a word.
In fact, Zhao Huahai also has a bitterness in his heart and can't say it, he also wants to be like other patients, someone to accompany him, occasionally talk to him, encourage him, encourage him, but since he got this disease, his parents, two brothers, and three sisters have avoided him like a plague, and the reason is very simple, that is, they are afraid of donating a kidney to him.
Because uremia patients want to live, there are only two methods, one is dialysis, the other is kidney replacement, and among these two methods, kidney replacement is the most effective and most effective method, so uremia patients want to live have to wait for the kidney source, but in our country, there are far more patients than the kidney source, even if they wait for the kidney source, it may not be successful.But on this day, Zhao Huahai suddenly grabbed the doctor's hand and said happily: "My daughter-in-law is here, she wants to change my kidney."Therefore, if uremia patients want to survive, most of them have to rely on relatives to donate kidneys. However, kidney donation has a certain impact on the body.
This is the first time that Zhao Huahai has been hospitalized for so many days, and the doctor has seen him smile, and it is also the first time that he has heard the name of his family, his wife "Dong Lili", from his mouth.
Zhao Huahai has been hospitalized for some days, not only has no one to take care of him, but even he himself has never mentioned his family, but now a wife suddenly appeared, and the doctor not only suspected that this wife was a fake.
Because in order to find the source of the kidney as soon as possible, many patients will look around for the person who sold the kidney, and once they find it, the two will temporarily go through a marriage procedure and donate the kidney in the name of the husband and wife, which is actually selling the kidney.
After taking care of Dong Lili, Zhao Huahai has a lot of energy, and he doesn't keep a depressed face, and he can often smile at Dong Lili, watching the true feelings between the two, the doctor also dispelled his suspicions.
On this day, Dong Lili officially found the doctor and said, "I want to donate a kidney."
The doctor explained to Dong Lili: "If you want to donate a kidney, you have to do a matching, and in fact, the most suitable kidney donation is your husband's family, and they have a higher success rate of matching."
After listening to the doctor's words, Dong Lili lowered her head and said helplessly: "My father-in-law and mother-in-law are old, how can I let them be stabbed again, and his brothers and sisters, since he got sick, he has not been in touch, but as his wife, I can't ignore him, I can't watch him wait for death, I save him, even if my kidney is not suitable, then sell it and buy another one!" ”
After listening to Dong Lili's words, the doctor was also moved by her sincere feelings, and said comfortingly: "Then you have a marriage certificate ready, and once the matching is successful, you can donate a kidney for your husband."
As soon as she heard the marriage certificate, Dong Lili was stunned, because she didn't have it at all, the two had already divorced, strictly speaking, they were already a passer-by A and passer-by B.
Now thinking back on the bits and pieces with her husband, she really regrets that she divorced her husband on impulse.
Dong Lili and Zhao Huahai once studied in a secondary school, the two fell in love at first sight in the school, and soon became an enviable campus couple.
After the naked marriage, although the life was hard, the husband and wife supported each other, and the small life was also enjoyable, and it didn't take long for the crystallization of the love of the two to be born, but the divorce of the two was also related to the children.
On this day, the child did not write homework at home after school because of playfulness, Zhao Huahai saw it and dragged the child over to beat him, after the child's crying was heard by Dong Lili, she ran over and protected the child with her body, and then complained to her husband: "Every time I educate my children, I am so ruthless." ”
After Zhao Huahai heard it, he was not polite, and the two of them quarreled.
Because every time she quarreled, her husband never let herself, the more Dong Lili thought about it, the more angry she became, and she said the words of divorce in a fit of anger.
But what made her sad was that her husband agreed, and the next day the two received the divorce certificate in a daze.
After the divorce, Dong Lili moved back to her parents' house, but a few months passed, and Dong Lili came back with her luggage because she couldn't let go of the children, but as soon as she got home, she heard the news that her husband was hospitalized in the late stage of uremia. Then she hurried to the hospital.
Since a marriage certificate is needed for kidney donation, Dong Lili did not hesitate, and the two seized the time to get a marriage certificate.
As soon as the marriage certificate for remarriage arrived, Dong Lili made a match, and the match was really successful, Dong Lili was happy and nervous.
However, while Dong Lili was nervously waiting for a kidney transplant, the doctor brought bad news.
It turned out that when the doctor reported the formalities to the experts in the province, because he found that Zhao Huahai was diagnosed with uremia in May, got married in June, and then had a kidney transplant, he suspected that it was a fake marriage for the kidney.
After Dong Lili heard the news, she cried a lot, but fortunately, after the ** report, she went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to open a remarriage certificate, and finally got the approval of the health department.
Now that everything is ready, there is a new problem, that is, both of them are undergoing surgery, who will take care of them?
Just when the two of them didn't know what to do, a dusty old lady walked into the ward, Dong Lili saw that this old lady was too familiar, isn't this my mother. The old lady hugged her girl and said, "Girl, don't worry about going in, you have a mother for everything."
At two o'clock in the afternoon of October 19, 2011, Zhao Huahai hugged his wife tightly like a child, tears flowed non-stop, Dong Lili patted her husband and comforted: "It's okay, Lao Zhao, it'll be fine in a while."
Dong Lili's surgery began at 2 p.m., and it wasn't until 5 p.m. that Dong Lili was pushed out of the operating room, when she was pale and her eyes were closed. At 6 o'clock in the evening, Zhao Huahai was also pushed into the operating room.
Fortunately, the operation was successful, but Dong Lili's wife was crying with red eyes, she looked at her daughter lying on the bed with a pale face, and really wanted to lie there for her daughter.
It didn't take long for Dong Lili to wake up, and the first thing she asked was: "How is my husband", and she smiled when she learned that the operation was successful.
Dong Lili is a woman who is less than one meter six tall, and she even speaks softly, but it is this weak girl who interprets the most beautiful appearance of love to us.
Raise.