Kunpeng Project
The "strange phenomenon" at the class reunion 3 types of people are on call, but 3 types of people are "left out".
In this era, the people who grew up with us already have their own jobs and families. Compared with this complex world, this kind of pure friendship is the most cherished.
And in order to continue this pure friendship, many people hold parties every year. It's the time of the Chinese New Year, and everyone is on vacation, so it's the best party.
However, at this year's class reunion, many people noticed a very strange thing, that is, some students went to **, and they went**.
01 All three types of people will be assigned to different positions.
1.A person who cherishes the camaraderie of his classmates.
He felt that compared to those false feelings, such feelings were more pure and pure. Therefore, every time there is a class reunion, they go because it is a kind of commemoration.
But we still have to fight them, maybe after the class reunion, you will find the cruelty of this world. Maybe you will cherish the memories of the past, but in the heart of another person, everything in the past will be blurred with the passage of time.
Sometimes, things that you feel are complicated, as the years go by, will only turn into accidents without too much emotion. Therefore, as I said before, not everyone can turn around, some people are just passing by and have nothing to do with your youth.
2.People who live well, are rich, and are free.
As they get older, some of them already have their own businesses, and some have gained financial independence. In this way, everyone is rich, has time and time, as long as you receive an invitation to the class reunion, you will naturally come without saying a word. After all, everyone is here to play.
Of course, not all rich people come to this party with a pretending mentality. "The current class reunion is to show off your wealth. ”
For example, lovers are considerate and show affection; People with some achievements will boast that they are well paid; Even the most outstanding ones will take the opportunity to show off their diamond rings and jewelry, and even designer bags.
A sense of vanity filled the room, as if the joy and envy of this moment were the best memories of life.
But let us say that everything that makes a career out of vanity is a frivolous deception, and it does not necessarily benefit from it; People who have lost their liberty are not necessarily without fault. People, as long as they live in their own world, spend every day plainly, feel their own temperature, feel their own sadness, feel their own sadness, this is a kind of happiness.
3.Sociable.
There are always some people who love to join in the fun, and they come when they see people, and they come when they see people. Especially some people who are more sociable are more than happy to join.
At class reunions, they can meet up with old friends, have a good chat, and maybe even help.
After all, the feelings in this world are very complicated, and in such a chaotic world, it is also a very comfortable thing to recall the happiness of the past.
However, we also want to tell you that the truth is so cruel, that there are staggered plans at the dinner table, and that brothers are like brothers. When they leave the table, all the noise disappears, and so does the friendship between them.
The relationship between adults is no longer like in school, and only love can be maintained. If you want others to help you, you have to think about whether you can do something for them, otherwise, relying on friends to improve yourself is a fool's dream.
02Why aren't there three types of people?
1.Those who are busy at work.
Obviously, many people who are very busy with work simply can't spare time, not because they don't want to, but because they don't have enough time.
It's like doing medicine, you have to do a few surgeries in the evening, you can't even order lunch, let alone attend a party between friends, how can you have so much time and energy.
2.People who are living in distress.
Some students from poor families do not want to participate in this kind of gathering, after all, the dinner between adults is not only to remember the old feelings, but more importantly, to show their abilities and expand their social circle.
A person who is already having a hard time, and now being despised by his former friends, is a huge shock to his mental and physical health, and it is likely to lead to depression. Therefore, it is better for them to come as little as possible, so as not to cause extraneous complications.
3.People who have a successful career and are not willing to waste their time.
And the reason why some successful students did not come is not that they look down on these students, but that they can't talk to these students.
Just like Yu Zheng at the beginning, he once said that he didn't like to participate in the class reunion, and he had received his invitation three times, but he refused all of them. The reason is that I feel that I have a past and have no common language with them.
After all, they have been out of school for so many years and have embarked on their own paths, some are working hard in the mall, some are struggling at work, some are taking care of their children at home, some are taking care of their children at home, and some are taking care of their parents.
In fact, those successful people know exactly what they want, and they don't want to waste their time on noisy parties.
As Steve Jobs once said, "Life is short, so stop wasting your time for other people's lives." ”
That's why most people are reluctant to join a team.
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